and where are you shopping? I could go on with a few more questions, but lets start with these.

I have not been stood up 5 times in 18 months and I started out on BP like most.  Ripped off - sure, early on, bit not stood up 5 times.

The usual questions.....

Are you persuing unreviewed BP girls?  If so, then getting stood up means you caught break because you didn't get your ass kicked by a pimp or ripped off.  Or both.

Are you requesting something unusual that is making them uncomfortable in retrospect?  If so, stop requesting that and play nice with others.

All that said, Ohio just seems to be a freaking mess with the provider market.  I seem to hear more bitching about that state than any other, so it may not just be you.  Ya'all make my secondary hobbying area, central PA, look like SoCal at this point.  And trust me - I have only found one decent provider in 18 months in central PA.

You have written a couple of reviews now.  Do you also now have a reference or two?  If so then this should not be happening to you any more.  Use the search function on TER and find yourself some nice, intimate and reliable providers who meet your criteria.  Slow down, plan ahead, give them time to get you approved.  Then play nice, treat them with respect and caring like you would your lover and lay back and have your world rocked by these beautiful women as they reward your gentlemanly self

No offense intended, but if you are not comfortable sharing the specifics (without names of course) it will be difficult to get any meaningful advice.  Anything you get will be based on speculation at this point and may or may not have any bearing on you particular situation.  If you really want help and advice, you need to describe the specific situations.  Not saying you did anything wrong, at least not intentionally, but there has to be a common thread for there to be so many no shows in such a short period.

I see two reviews both of BP girls.  If that is where you are doing all of your shopping I'm not surprised that you are getting a lot of no-shows.  Are these firm appointments that have been scheduled in advance?

Often times high volume providers do not worry about canceling because they can easily make that call up the next day. When a woman is only getting 2-3 calls a week, they tend to take them more seriously knowing that money is gone, if she messes up.

It has also happened to me. I tend to call and like to meet within 30 min. It just works out better for me and my schedule. Is this a red flag to providers?