This is essentially what you are asking when you demand that she exchange elaborate, self-indulgent email/phone communications with you!  

And why should SHE PAY YOU $250 an hour to "pick your brain?" THAT'S why god invented whores and shrinks! They get paid to do the proverbial PICKING! Yeeeesh.

Here is what you need to do- draft a SHORT, CONCISE, PG-13 introductory email that captures the core of what you want out of future sessions. (Do not, I repeat,  DO NOT go off on a tangent and start listing off all 100 fetishes!) End said email with any references you have, so the ladies know you are serious and not just doing a little one handed typing... *wink* *wink*

I'll leave you with the immortal words of Green Day-

"I went to a shrink
To analyze my dreams
He says it's lack of sex
That's bringing me down
I went to a whore
She said my life's a bore
So quit my whining cause
It's bringing her down

Lol... I ant talking about that kinda of foot fetish

This lack of communication between parties is annoying.  

I know it's the nature of the business.

It's just a turn off.

Ohh well. Everything happens for a reason.  

 
Thanks for everyone's time and input.  

The effort is appreciated

If his post is about simply asking, "Do you allow foot fetish" and that's it, I don't have a problem with it. If OTOH, he wants to sit there and write a fkin dissertation about his sexual needs and a play by play of what the date is going to be like, he needs to stick with providers who don't screen, and are that stupid to admit in writing no less, they are having sex for money.