Incall, you go to her place.

Outcall, she comes to your place.

What do else do you want to know?

Lou

can someone give me a description of how it all goes down?

give details on how incalls go down a
and how outcalls go down

to urge you to sign up for VIP and read the Juicy Details section of as many reviews as you need to.

It goes down in a variety of ways, most of them good. It's already been detailed here thousands of times, giving all of us something to learn from. Take advantage.

Start by reading the Self Help Manual you will find linked on this page.

Basically you will need to join a screening service, then check out reviews and websites until you narrow down your search.  Contact the gal following any instructions on her site and be ready to state a day and time when you want to meet.

Things should progress from there.

You can click the "self-help' center link at top right of page after you click discussion board and choose a place like "general or newb". But here is a link for you.