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Do LE's post on TER, Redbook, Craig's List, City Vibe, Lovings etc.?
bloe1 2 Reviews 8867 reads
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I recently made e-mail contact with a provider.  She replied with a topless photo of her and explicit description of her do's and don'ts, time length of session, and rates.  My request was extremely vague as was my replies.  Except for giving out my work number for her verification, which she said she googled me and all was cool.  In hind sight, may be I should not have.  She has limited reviews (5).  of the 3 on TER only one reviewer has more than 3 reviews listed.  It's what got me nervous.  How would you guys proceed?  Or am I over thinking it?

mrfisher2689 reads

Most responsible providers know to never discuss explicit acts.

I would not see this provider, even though the odds of her being LE are probably low, but why chance it when there are so many other options.

Let's face it, if you go forward with the fear of LE in the back of your mind, you are not going to enjoy the experience; so why bother?

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Conundrumite1629 reads

Though her review history wasn't very lengthy or deep there was enough to defray many LE concerns.

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Sinful12287 reads

if I were a gent, which obviously I am not.  Why?  If its not LE, it is someone who is careless and careless ladies get busted.  Do you want to be there when it happens?  Or after it happens?

As I have said before, its in a client's best interest to go with a provider who thoroughly screens and is careful.  This is the reason I get frustrated by guys who complain about screening.  If its a well-reviewed provider, it should put their mind at ease knowing she is doing everything within her power to exercise caution and to stay safe.

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bloe11719 reads

Thanks, I appreciate the input.

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anon88941504 reads

how would a new provider then get started in this world of hobbying under your critierium?  

I don't mean this to be agruementative, just informative for those new ladies trying to break into the business the right way without freaking anyone out or getting frustrated with all the need for reviews.  

I know it was miserable for me to find a provider to see for my first time as I had no references!

Your thoughts please!

~PS~

-- Modified on 3/6/2008 12:40:30 PM

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Sinful12585 reads

it answers you question regarding being a newbie client.

As for newbie providers, the first thing they should learn before they set up shop (so to speak) is how to screen.  Otherwise, carelessness in this business, can be catastrophic.

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anon88941621 reads

I agree that being explicit in her ways is not the correct way of screening and providing.  I was more referring to the comments that hobbyists should only see providers that are reviewed well on review boards and that providers should always make sure that hobbyists have references.  If those critiria are held firm there would be no way in for newbies at all.

In my case it was a very well reviewed provider who saw me so I was able to do my part, but I had zero references so she had to take a chance.  I called almost 40 providers before I finally got the opportunity to visit my first provider.

~PS~

If that is the same for providers in having to struggle I can certainly see why they end up on CL.  

I was simply wondering if there is a better way for newbies to start without going through that much of a pain?

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jazz321838 reads

Screening is part of the hobby!!!

What she is offering, and you are asking for is illegal in most jurisdictions!!!

I would always advise ladies to ALWAYS BE CAREFUL!!!  You never know who is answering you ad, whether it be you first, or you hundredth!!!

jazz32


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anon88941645 reads

I agree that being explicit in her ways is not the correct way of screening and providing.  I was more referring to the comments that hobbyists should only see providers that are reviewed well on review boards and that providers should always make sure that hobbyists have references.  If those critiria are held firm there would be no way in for newbies at all.

In my case it was a very well reviewed provider who saw me so I was able to do my part, but I had zero references so she had to take a chance.  I called almost 40 providers before I finally got the opportunity to visit my first provider.

~PS~

If that is the same for providers in having to struggle I can certainly see why they end up on CL.  

I was simply wondering if there is a better way for newbies to start without going through that much of a pain?

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Lusty_Lolita1339 reads

It WAS hard getting started. I was SO tempted to just start taking everyone who complained I asked too much. But it started panning out for me when I met my first hobby through here.
I was VERY careful in the beginning, and I was well rewarded with a few very generous guys who took a chance with me.

LOOK AT ME NOW! :D:D:D

Do the homework, and keep trying, and in the end, it will all pay off in it's own rewards. Sooner or later you get a feel for the other person, and you'll know what sounds right, and what doesn't.
By ALL means...listen to your gut.

xoxo
~Diana~

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anon88941404 reads

If you ever find your way a little bit northwest of home, I just might have that opportunity to LOOK at you now! ;)

Do you mind if we do more than window shopping?

~PS~

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mrfisher1907 reads

a well reviewed provider and do doubles and the like so that she can develop a clientelle who will review her.

Either that, or just wait for the daring TOFTT types who invariably show up.

It's really no differnt than what other professionals do day in and out.

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