The redeeming value of a person

You know , what you personally may find repulsive may in fact be a non issue for someone else.The thing for me about being with people is to find something about each individual that is of value to me at that time. AKA attractive .
Women tend to be less visual than our male counterparts. Unless the person is not clean what they look like , their age , height , weight etc, are not really part of the equation at all.I have found that 95% of the gents I have seen fit into one or more of these categories :
Bright - brilliant
Talented - off the charts gifted
Funny - absolutely hysterical
A great lay- holy crap what the hell was that?
I personally like to connect with the person as opposed to just connecting parts if at all posible .Some people are not comfortable with exposing anything but their parts though sadly.That is another thread though I think
For those who do not somehow fit into any of the above categories I suppose I feel they deserve attention even more so than their peer group , as it may just be of even more value to them than the average guy in the hobby.I tend to be a giver, giving is a double equation it also involves the receiver and the reception..That goes in both directions...
I find being given the opportunity to connect with all kinds of people a privilage not a burden . The idea that we should limit ourselves based on a preset idea of acceptable or attractive is as a women is limiting.
The only exception for me is that unclean is something I find to be unbearable and indicates typically to me a lack of self respect and self help skills which is in fact a turn off. Kendall Lynn

Like bad breath, smelly balls? etc lol

LOL, First of all, your question is the main reason that men could never be providers! Secondly, you should understand that there are guys who get turned away all the time.  It may not be for the reasons that you think but it does happen. An ugly guy with a good attitude is much more likely to find favor in this business than a stud with a big dick and a poor attitude. Lots of very normal looking guys who act creepy or insist on pounding women into the mattress with a Viagra induced erection for 60 minutes wind up on DNS lists all the time...

was that if a client was fat and ugly she would just close her eyes and remind herself that it's only an hour..

Yep.

looks, or personality. If it's hygeine I am out the door, I shouldn't have to tell a grown man to shower. I can get past looks if a gentleman is respectful and has a good personality. If his personality is the problem I deal with it for the session and put him pn my DNS list. Only once have I walked out on a session because of personality, he was weird and wanted me to tell him stories of being moleted ans a child, ( which I was not), He seamed to think all providers had been molested in childhood. That was creepy and he was way too interested in kids, I was out the door with a quickness.
So to answer your question, yes, I will tolerate a certain amout of grotesque but some things I just won't tolerate for any amount of money.