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Is this what it is supposed to be?confused_smile
andyguo87 2968 reads
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I met a provider yesterday. I asked for a 1hr session on the phone and she said ok. That was my first time ever so I wasn't sure what I will be getting. I read a lot of reviews here and most involves some small talks, warming up, and such but not for me. We went into the room, taken everything off and went stright to main course. The whole thing is done in less than 20m. When I ask if I get a second chance since we still have time, she said no.

Is this how things works? I mean I would love to have some warming up, DFK, etc. The lady also told me that everything cost extra. It is not that I didn't have fun but just feels a bit different than what I have heard.

Anything I could do next time to make this more memorable?

Did she have reviews here? That is the only way you can know what to expect. Choose well reviewed ladies, not just a few reviews but more than 10 by reviewers who have reviewed more than a few ladies. Doing your homework is the only way to know what you are in for, if you choose a lady based on her ads but she has no reviews you are taking a huge chance that you will not get what is promised.

Most of us would call that lousy service and up-sell.  There are many, many, MANY wonderful women for whom an hour means an hour and the price is all inclusive for that hour of fun.

Was the lady you visited well reviewed HERE?  Or were you your assumptions based on what you have read about well-reviewed ladies on this site, and applied to a session with a random lady?  Next time, after you read the reviews - pick the lady with good reviews!  

You might also consider writing a review of your experience for this site.  Since you appear to be new it may not post, but it helps to establish a history.

Sorry to hear about your experience!
Love,
Sola

It sounds like up-selling to me. I'm sorry for that was not what you expected.

Before you made an appointment, did you check her reviews, her webpage, or any specific menus out? Some girls provide multi pops and others don't.

Sorry for telling you this, but I guess you did your homework incompletely before you met her.

Just try to find girls who provide what's in your mind.

Be safe & good luck.

-- Modified on 12/10/2009 4:39:10 PM

Once in the way you expected.  Second in not a nice way.  Unless she had stated somewhere that the session would end when you popped, she did you an extreme disservice by upselling.  What happened to you is not normal by any means.

My thought would be that you did not do the proper or complete research when you chose this provider.  Do a search on this forum for research, or choosing a provider.  There is plenty of help out there.  Or PM me and I will try to help you out.

Swim

andyguo87906 reads

I found the lady from Eros. I did some research but probably not thorough enough. She sounded pretty sweet on the phone and said she will take care of everything and make sure I had a good time so I didn't think much. :(

Guess I should have use my big head instead. Will definitely be more careful next time.

BTW, is it true that LE is lurking on this site/forum as well?

Sorry to hear about your experience.  This is not normal practice and I hope your next date is a lot better.

Andy,

I've been to four different real GFE's...not a lot but enough to know what it should be like, you know already that your experience isn't the way it should be, let me tell you how it should go.  

Once in the room you'll probably be greeted with a light kiss and hug, place the envelope in a conspicuous place and ask to freshen up (do anything from rinse the boys and use mouthwash to take a full shower), this gives the lady a chance to check the donation privately if she is so inclined.  When you come out there will be a little conversation, maybe a drink, then light kissing possibly leading to heavier kissing.  Depending on whether you can go twice or not (tell the provider) it will either progress quickly to number one or a good provider will make it last so the first pop comes near the end of the alotted time.  If you can go twice there will be some more conversation between rounds then the second one will start.  Part of the definition of GFE is comfortable...what you experienced was not comfortable...in fact it was exactly the way a GFE should NOT go.

it should be apparent if she offers MSOG.  With VIP you can PM the reviewers if you are in doubt.

Now, do some research and try again.  Most likely you will have a much better experience.

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