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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 710 reads
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It's the CIA connections and the IP tracking I mentioned in my post right? ;)
Yes you ladies do have all kinds of ways to screen and some of them should rightfully remain secrets, because while most of us are gentlemen, and just want to have a good time with you and are willing to pass screening, there are always bad guys, and LE trying to figure out ways to get around screening. Some times the less known the better.
Stay safe:)

Fvj19732370 reads

After reading hundreds of reviews and many of the newbie FAQs I decided to dive in and contact my first provider.  She has 40 something reviews here and seems very highly regarded.  I kept it simple and respectful.  She replied promptly and after a couple more e-mails we have an appointment.

The thing is, she asked for no verification or references.  All she asked was that I confirm the night before.

So now I'm the one who is skeptical.  I figured she would ask for more info.  All she knows is my first name and my e-mail address.  This doesn't sound typical from what I have read here.

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swimtrekr1370 reads

I don't know what methods she might using to screen you.  She might have googled your email address and gotten info.  If she has over 40 reviews, it's probably a good bet that she's safe.  If she has your TER handle, she might have looked for you here by searching for your posts.

It does seem a bit unusual that she didn't ask you for any information, but from your description of her, she does seem safe to see.  You could PM a couple of her recent reviewers and ask tham about her.

Swim

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HeathersLuv4u702 reads

...stays in top of her game that could be all she needs.
I do a simple screen before I reply to an email...lots of girls do.
However, with him being a newbie, there might not be much info to find unless he used an email address that has some history to it...either way, there's so many various ways we secretly do things!
Can't give away out secrets but if she's been around she will know what she's doing or she wouldn't have made it very far in this Hobby.

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perfectstorm711 reads

It's the CIA connections and the IP tracking I mentioned in my post right? ;)
Yes you ladies do have all kinds of ways to screen and some of them should rightfully remain secrets, because while most of us are gentlemen, and just want to have a good time with you and are willing to pass screening, there are always bad guys, and LE trying to figure out ways to get around screening. Some times the less known the better.
Stay safe:)

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fallonkelly891 reads



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Fvj19731250 reads

It is a brand new email with virtually no history.  I used it for TER and to contact the provider.  I tried googling it and nothing comes up.  So I don't see how she could verify me with that email address.  Furthermore, many of her reviews mention checking references and verification as does her website.  I'm still skeptically but also freely admit I am a very paranoid individual.

On another note, if I do proceed I would rather the provider not have my cell number on her records.  I can easily communicate using email on my phone while in transit.  I am wondering if this would be an unusual request that would get me cut off.

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fallonkelly686 reads

Google is child's play.  Just a starting point or an additional perk to the screening process.

But yes, not giving up a cell phone number is going to be a problem.
Most of us require a phone call before meeting, and most of us use what we call the 2-call system which is going to require a cell phone.  

Just get a $30 Tracfone.  

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perfectstorm543 reads

I wouldn't worry about it. if she has 40 plus good reviews, she is probably safe. While it may not be "typical" as you say from what you have read here, there are actually some ladies who don't screen, and some who "spot screen" (screen some guys but not all), and some who screen by "gut feeling" (just basing it on their feeling through your emails or phone conversations). There are also many who have different ways of screening, (as swim mentioned.)

She might even be going easy on you because she knows you are a newbie. Or maybe she has a CIA or FBI connection and she figured out exactly who you are, or is an extreme computer techie and tracked you through your ip address. :) Just kidding on the last two (or am I?) Anyway the point is, while it may not be "typical," she is probably safe (and she feels you are safe) and you will probably have a great time. Then you can use her as a reference making future screening easier.

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sexyangelique691077 reads

My screening approach varies greatly depending on a lot of factors and circumstances.

With experience and over time, you start to develop a gut level reaction that makes you screen more heavily than normal or just turn down offers altogether.

I turned down an offer tonight just because they guy was asking if I was going to wear panties. I don't care HOW many references he might have had (we never got that far), we are done.

Apparently, there is nothing about you that is giving her any red flags. Your approach seemed normal to her and you are speaking "Hornyguyese" rather than leaving give any telltale signs that you are anything other than that.

Sometimes heavy screening drives guys away because it makes them nervous or takes too long. Who knows.

I saw a guy once at a hotel with no screening whatsoever just because I wanted to meet someone from his city because I was planning to go there. It helped that he offered to meet at the hotel bar for a drink, so I let him skate. Rare, but I saw no red flags.

Don't judge her. Providers are like cats. We get spooked easily, but purr easily, too, when we feel safe.

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