At the end of a first session with a provider, if I really like her, is it okay to bring up setting a date for a second session? Or is that considered bad form?

Just say you'd like to see her again soon. I wouldn't set an Exact Date for a second session after just seeing her. For my second session I told the Provider I'm seeing that I'm going to see her again next week. I'll call you to set up the exact time and day. And I did.

...you know when you can see her next, why not just go ahead and set the date.  If you wait too long, she might not be available; especially if she is very low volume.

I'm continuously amazed at the clever, outrageous, creative handles that pop up here.  This one, is award-winning.  No problem with snarky, but a "warm fuzzy" is just as divine Kudos, WMBL!

...at least with scheduling.  Now when you meet, I'm sure that some fun games are played to the enjoyment of both parties

If you know when you would like to meet again and are sure you can be there, set it up with her. If you think "that was so good I need another shot of her next week" but don't know for sure that you'll be able to get away, set it up when you know you have the time.

how is that playing games?  

Could be putting her on the spot if she doesnt want to see YOU!  

If you know you'd like to see her again and you know your schedule... why wait and risk her not being available?  If you know you'd like to see her again, but are not sure of when you can get away... then by all means, wait until you know and try to set something up.  Just don't get mad and pissy if she isn't available.  These gals have better things to do and certainly are not waiting around just for your call.  

Give yourself a few days and see how you feel. There is no rush. Someone else might catch your eye in the meantime and you may want to pursue that which may put you in a bad spot of wanting to cancel with the first gal.

now i'd be sleeping so i dont know where youre going with that.

Kinda like those TV ads that say "and if you call within the next 10 minutes we'll double the shit that you have no use for." Lol.  

At least I got you not to speak in absolutes for a change so I clearly am having an influence on you.

How about we take this over to the GD and see what others have to say about you B&S again? Seems like you have quite the rep on the Carolina board.

What people over there objected to was that you did so deceptively, and were confronted about it by numerous well respected hobbyists and providers.  

All she is going to do is accept or accept but then be "unavailable". You'll never know until she actually books the next session with you.