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murd13 4 Reviews 2481 reads
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I'm still brand new to this - been to 2 providers and they were radically different experiences - one lousy, one great.
So - I'm still very curious and excited about this world.
My question to the more experienced and educated in this world is this - if one cannot discuss what they are looking for upfront - phone, email, etc, for obvious reasons, and once you've arrived at an appointment you are basicaly committed, is there a way to find someone that might share a passion for some particular things that you are into? I want to develop a good relationship - albeit professional - with ONE provider that enjoys the same things I do, or at least is ok with them. Nothing very warped, just certain things that I really enjoy that would be worth paying for.
Is there a way here to search for someone to find out if they are a good fit in advance, based on certain preferences and desires?
Please advise - thanks!

mrfisher1025 reads

expectations, but if you have some unusual desires that are not covered by the usual litany of abbreviations then that can be a problem.  Discussions of specific sexual acts are a no-no until you are in the room and the envelope tendered.

One way might be to ask on the local board and have people PM you if they know of any providers who would go along with your wants.

You will need to become a VIP member in order to use the PM service however.

Otherwise, you will simply have to meet some providers who seem open minded and then ask them up close and personal about your desires.  If it's not too kinky, you'll find that most will be very willing to please.

Best of luck.

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keystonekid1457 reads

then, as Mr. Fisher said, read the reviews.  Don't just go by the profile because that is established by the first reviewer.  You will need VIP to read the juicy details where the answers to your questions will be found.

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LadyJayLa1287 reads

This isn't that hard to figure out, All good Providers have websites that basically list what she's into, you can get a feel by just reading it along with her reviews, but the easiest thing to do once you find a woman that makes you tingle is to contact her and ask if she's into this or that..I don't know what the hard part is or why you can't call a provider and just ask her. I have gentlemen call me all the time asking if i would be opposed to this or that and considering that for me Honesty is the way to go 100% of the time, i will always answer them honestly.
Honey, this isn't that complicated!
Jay

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mrfisher1214 reads

I would not advise asking any questions over the phone or by email that are of a sexual nature.

That is often how LE operates to get the goods on a provider before a bust and most providers are understandably hesitant to discuss that under those circumstances.  Many will just hang up and never answer your calls or email again at the first hint of such a suggestion.

Now making suggestions like what clothing to wear or even if they like to do backrubs is OK, but when it crosses the line into actual sexual acts, that should be avoided.

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NaomiBanks1414 reads

I agree with Mr. Fisher. Simply calling a provider or e-mailing her and asking about sex acts is a big no no and most experienced providers will either ignore the
e-mail or hang up on you if you do this.

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JennyDeMilo1239 reads

phone, email, carrier pigeon, or smoke signals, regardless of the method of communication  there is never a reason to ask an explicit or inappropriate question.

I understand you might feel you "need" to know that A will get you B,.... which is why you do your homework and sites like this exist.

Buy a VIP and read the reviews.

:)

Related Link: http://www.goodtimejenny.com

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KariPleases1336 reads

Go to  your local board and ask for PM's from anyone who may be interested.  Or use the in search of board and list your requests.


Good luck in your search,

Kari

Related Link: always looking

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