I am a Newbie having trouble getting started.
A provider yesterday would not see me because i wasnt verified on the white list.

Can anyone help me with this.

Any provider out there willing to see me to help with this?

Go to the home page of your closest Regional Discussion Boards and Ad Boards.  
Select the blue [Search] link.
Enter [newbie;friendly] [All these words] (yes, that's a semi-colon between newbie and friendly)
Leave the Author field blank [    ]
and hit Search.
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Because of a TER glitch, you won't get the most recent such posts, but you might some leads to currently active newbie friendly Providers.
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Good luck. Have fun.