heh wow this question seems to get asked once a day.

here is the link to check out.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=11020&boardID=33&page=

Next time you have a question search the board first to see if someone else has already asked that question.  You get your answers a lot faster.

I suggest reading through all of the posts in the noob section.  You will learn a lot.

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