How long does it take for a response on screening info? I sent very solid info to a provider about three days ago...should I have heard back by now?
if she had chance to get you screened. It depends on how thorough she is.
It could be also that she has forgotten to get back to you or just got busy..
If it has been 72 hrs, I would just ask..
In your case, I would have contacted her after 48 hrs. and asked about a date. That way you don't have to seem like you're bugging her about her screening method. Her answer will either be that she is not done screening you yet, or ask when you you like to see her. In the latter, you know she has screened you to her satisfaction.
Swim
without us seeming like we are suffocating the girl or embarrasing her in any way. Great post Swim.
that need to be screened, if i attemot to sit down n screen all them it can take up to a week. i have done it before to organize my inbox and create folders according to location they need incall in, then after i can message them when i have a hotel there. I am this week goin to wait n see if any one books for the incall hotel downtown 2 days i had planned n if they want to see me that day i will screen after, i am just not in mood to sit down n screen 70 reservations froms, that been pilin up til i know they r interested in meeting, i d be here for weeks. I write now have at least 50 unscreened date requests in there. i am trying to organize them all, if i sat n manually messaged them all hi i will screen you asap, it be a headache, i did go n message them all some of my etiquette and also my schedule for the week. so now i gotta go see if any r interested in booking, i have sat n screened every one before booking before n spent a week doin that n fell behind and also didnt have any them book. so.
for well reviewed providers will just toss a random link to some bp add in as one reference, or theyl, critize me n go off on me for askin for screenin info n tell me my methods just dont work for them, and theyl go off on me.its fun, i like the abuse you know, i am a glutton for punishment, just kiddin,
the best is the guys that get angry if i dont answer my email in 2 -3 days n i come home from friends to see 7 emails over period days , where they come to a conclusion i do not want to see them n act very rude to me via email,or text, this is after I have screened them, ie! loggin into ter to see them here, 2. cross referenced thier email here, 3. emailed 2 seperate providers, cross referenced provider email marches one on her web page, and had numerous phone converstaion n emal chats to get aquanted , . this would xplain why i came very close to getn a eviction notice in feb and also still owe 1500 on rent that was due feb 1st, i am spending so much time screenign n getn rooms, then i come home n get ten texts n emails a day askin where i am today,
the best was aguy wo texted me from 9 am til 3 om with out tellin me an exact time hed come, sexting as u call it, never would answer when i tryed n called, never would say what time, then i ended uo stupidly missing other calls in hopes he was coming sometime in near 6 hours, since he was a repeat i d met, by time 3 pm rolled around,
ater texting with him since 9 am in efforts to book the session i honestly was all stiff n sore from texting i wasnt even capable of workin byt hen, n was at a hotel i d pay 200 for, and fell behind very fast,
i just am glad i am not getn evicted n hope i can find some nicer clients this month,
or this week one guy who gets a half hour for 150 2-3 times year , he had texted me 9 times every two hours or so, things like kum fuck me, ect ect, then i had a old friend here n was practicin hair cuts n he heped buy sme supplies at sallys , then i look n his last text reads. "WOW" as if he simply cant get ver or believ i would respond to his texts immediatly ot that i may actually be doin something for myself like workin on my other carreer i once dreamed of, until i ended up realizin this would take pretty much every last drop of energy from me to sit behind a comouter n screen . only to have guys cancel after i spent hours screening, or get angry n decide for themselves with out hearing from me, that i decided i do not wsnt to meet them , then not respond,
its preety insane what I deal with, but whatver , for every 10 rude guys i deal with one nice one comes along n i ate to say its worht it, and luckily for me to get to see how they act before wastin time with them, flippin out in me texting me 8 times, then spazzin cuz i didnt respoind, one guy i actually had my friend call him n say shes busy right now, and he told my friend off, on phine,
its like i d get 8 texts all say kum over,
kum fuck me,
i want your pussy, then becayuse i didnt respond when HE wanted , he strats spaxxin n sendin mean texts, its wicked stressful, to ick up the phone n see mean texts when u just were spendin time with a f4iend n doin things for yourself.
then the guys that i have taken time to screen thoroughly, who then end up tellkin me off cua i havent met with them yet. like i am suposed to be some super himann who can do ten dates a week, which i clearly cant at all. oh well what can u do, hope some polite ones will come along n suck it up n try not to get into arguments with them, i guess.
And (I thought) we had a tentative date for this week, which I tried to confirm, but haven't heard back and she's kind of gone off the grid. It's really not a big deal...she's well reviewed and probably quite busy, so i get it. The last thing I want to be is a pest/pain in the ass...but (1) I would like to make plans too (2) she's got some sensitive info on me (3) she's hot!!! So, all of the above have me a little anxious.
When you are relying on the word and schedule of other women, it can vary from 12 hours to a damn week. I have always been very prompt in returning emails to ladies needing references, but can't say the same has happened for me. I simply let the guy know who is doing him a favor, and who is not.
Dear Ms. Rayne:
I am just wondering what are other ways you might choose to achieve what you need to achieve during the verification process? Also how far back would you let the prospective hobbyist go to satisfy verification? Also has employment verification been one of the most often exhausted ways when he only has partially satisfied your requirements for verification?