Should I be concerned that a provider seems willing to see me despite the fact that I have no experience and zero references?
I have shared a few emails with a very well reviewed (almost 40 reviews over a 3 year span) provider in my area. within our first couple emails I was upfront about having no references and no work email or phone number through which she could verify me (I am self employed). She soon after that sent me an email that seemed to suggest that she was not concerned with screening me any further, and that she would be willing to set up a date together.
The process, or lack there of, sorta caught me off guard and didn't strike me as very thorough. should I consider myself lucky, or should this raise a LE concern?
Just trying to be cautious here. I appreciate any feedback or advice.
This may very well be ok. The number of reviews if you have read them should take care of LE concerns, especially if they are well spaced out. I have had several providors who did not appear to screen, but later I found out they did. There are a load of tools available to research a person on the internet. Did you give her your phone number, or your real name, or is your email address directly traceable to you. All of these will allow a check of certain facts about you without asking for a lot of screening info. I have also been screened by being told to go to a specific location where the lady could observe me before being given the final address. If you feel comfortable with her reviews that she is who you think she is. Then in your emails you must have given enough information that she is satisfied with you.
i actually didn't give her any of that personal information (real name, phone number, or traceable email).
in response to the previous entry - my spidey sense tells me that she very well could be legit... that said, i suppose an underlying current here is that one never really knows what they are getting into here.
i feel as though i've done as much research as i know how to do... i've checked her reviews, i've checked her reviewer's histories, i've pm'd her recent reviewers and received a response from one (the reviewer was very complimentary of her and vouched for her legitimacy), i've checked for her posts on my regional board on this site (they seem to be very regular and consistently spaced apart). unless i've overlooked some aspect of the screening process on my end, i'm not sure what else i can do to ease my mind.
she did appear to change her incall location recently, but i just presume this is not out of the ordinary.
basically i imagine that i will be nervous my 1st time no matter what i do, but that after that, as long as she is who she says she is and we get along well, i will be excited to see her again sometime with my mind at ease.
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