Hi all,

I'm new to the city and it seems any provider I have serious interest in seeing, wants to checkout my TER posts and referrals from existing members/providers.  

That's extremely understandable; they want to be secure and comfortable.

However, it presents somewhat of a chicken-and-egg scenario:

How can I have other providers here provide a referral, if I can't see any as I have no referral/posting history ?

Suggestions/advice welcome

Thanks.

Moved from NY board

...something worthwhile to contribute.

You may also want to consider changing your handle.  "Unknown Avenger" sounds a little sinister.  I had problems with my original handle too;  I just couldn't convince providers that "Hitler Mustache" referred to the way I preferred a kitty should be trimmed.

There are 3 main ones, DateCheck, Preferred411, and RoomService2000.  Gina at P411 has a good rep for working with guys to get them verified.  Remember, we all started out the same way, it's tough at first, but once you get going, you'll be fine.

Swim