Unless you on a full ride, you must dome kind of work study on campus - so you have a job reference or tell the office of residential life that you need a "reference". For an elite provider it may not be enough but you are a student, you should not be able to afford one anyway. LOL

So do research and eliminate from your search any who say this on their websites.

Now, for others, they will still be leary of you so the best way to overcome their concerns is to come off as someone who knows what they are doing.

Towards that end, read and research all you can about the hobby and then write to them explaining your situation.  If you are sincere and a good writer, there is a strong likelyhood that someone will take a chance on you.

You can also look into joining one of the screening services such as Roomservice.  If you enter the word "screening" into the search engine on here you will find a multitude of threads on this subject.

I have no issues visiting with someone under 30 as long as they provide me what I need AND they are a proper gentleman.

Mr. Fisher is correct...many ladies do not see guys under 30. So do your research...

As far as verification, I will accept work verification (a problem from your stand point), email address from the school and a photocopy of your student id prior to meeting.  It is possible I will ask for a copy of your DL too.  It's all in how I feel and what I want to satisfy my screening.  However, you can join datecheck or preferred411..might be your only choice and will be worth it in the long run.

Hope this helps some..and be willing to provide what she wants/needs or you will not be seen from the one you chose and you will have to move on.

B

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