never had to either.


HH

I was just wondering about the screening process specifically when they call my job
I understand why I am just concerned with what they say I know I probably am being paranoid
But I don't want to lose my job

When I need to screen a gentlemen via his employment. I call and say I am calling from Dr. X dentist office calling to remind him of his dentist appointment.
or I just call and ask to speak with him.

Its very easy NO WORRIES

I'd just change this "... it's unlikely that she'd say anything stupid." to "it's unlikely that she'd say anything stupid ON PURPOSE."

Some guys prefer to work out something ahead of time or make sure the caller doesn't mess up. "Don't use the dentist story! The receptionist's husband is my dentist and she'll be suspicious!" I've heard of some callers being intentionally mistaken: "Is this John Smith of 123 4th St? I'm sorry, I appear to have called the wrong John Smith."  Or "cold" pain in the ass sales calls: "John Smith, please. ... Would you like to switch your car insurance and save hundreds of dollars?"

thank you
that puts me at ease  

i realize shes not going to call and say that shes an escort or hooker
i just don't want then to say anything that is suspicious either.  its an agency that is asking for the info  i just want to protect my end as much as they want too theirs .

I'm not as nervous any more

That was painless
I submitted the screening form yesterday and this morning I was approved and my office is closed for the weekend
So if they did call just got a message
I don't know what I was so worried about
Thank everyone for your comments