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Screening - was this normal?
carndakine 11 Reviews 1964 reads
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I just had a provider call me (at the agreed time) to screen me.  She said that she didn't have a premium subscription to TER and so couldn't look at references there.  She asked me "what are you looking for in a session?".  I said 'what do you mean', and she said 'you've seen my website menu.  Are you looking for a GFE?'.  I got nervous and called the call off.  Was that a reasonable thing to get worried about?

I can't recall having a provider ask me if I was looking for GFE.  Bottomline, it made you feel nervous, so you did what  was right for you.  Your post is one of the reasons why I  prefer email instead of phone in setting up a session.  

Posted By: carndakine
I just had a provider call me (at the agreed time) to screen me.  She said that she didn't have a premium subscription to TER and so couldn't look at references there.  She asked me "what are you looking for in a session?".  I said 'what do you mean', and she said 'you've seen my website menu.  Are you looking for a GFE?'.  I got nervous and called the call off.  Was that a reasonable thing to get worried about?

Don't rule that out..I wouldn't call back though, If you feel there is something wrong usually there is, guys should also screen girls prior to seeing them; by the way she probably meant a "whitelist" rather than references, a reputable provider who cares about her safety and business wouldn't mind spending the membership fee if this leads to obtain more info about possible dates..
Stay safe!
Paloma M.

Seems a little strange that if she could not see your references because she is not a vip member she could have just had you send that info in an email instead.And to mention GFE in a phone call with a guy who has not been screened is not too smart along with having a menu listed on her website.
Go with your gut if something does not seem right to you seems pretty reasonable to me.
VIP is well worth the small fee maybe ter is not used as much in her area.

Yes she was reviewed here, but not since several months ago.  She had about 10 reviews

Nothing wrong with bailing if you got spooked, but GFE is not a specific sex act in my mind. I have had careful discussions with providers about the menu in the past.

Bottom line is we ALL need to be careful.

will definitely be used as evidence against you when Sheriff Joe Arpio arrests you for prosititution. He's been doing it for quite awhile.  

Posted By: JoeBanzai
Nothing wrong with bailing if you got spooked, but GFE is not a specific sex act in my mind. I have had careful discussions with providers about the menu in the past.  
   
 Bottom line is we ALL need to be careful.

GaGambler363 reads

The term GFE in exchange for money is most definitely going to get you arrested if you are indeed talking to a cop, and will almost certainly get you convicted as well if that is the defense you use in court.

If you REALLY want to get technical, the cop can always lie about what you said.  

If she had 10 reviews, she's probably OK.

Being extra careful or even paranoid while breaking the law is always a good idea.

 

Posted By: GaGambler
The term GFE in exchange for money is most definitely going to get you arrested if you are indeed talking to a cop, and will almost certainly get you convicted as well if that is the defense you use in court.

Unless she was busted and turned into an informant / state's evidence.  

Best thing one can do should one get busted is STFU. Use your right to remain silent and ask to speak to your attorney.

This is a quote from a local news article about prostitution:

"Two officers familiar with escort service investigations said bringing prostitution charges against them is difficult.
The services are able to pre-screen customers and are well versed in the fine points of the law, they said. The websites offer what is referred to as a “GFE” (girl friend experience) and use code words such as “roses” when referring to cash payments, the officers said.

Can still be used against you.  True saying I have 150 roses for a girl friend experience isn't as easy to be convicted for as saying I'll give you $150 to suck and fuck me with some kissing.  Many big time gangsters have been convicted when LE explained the meaning of the code words used on recordings.

to the islands. Not sure but you gotta go with your gut. Better to wish you had a session with someone rather than schedule the date and have a bad time or worse yet, silver braclets.

Always the right thing to do, weather you are a hobbyist or a provider.
Specifics should never be mentioned on the phone, in emails, texts, or even in person until fun has already begun.
Remember, LEO can go further than most people seem to believe, some places more than others.

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