I wanted to post this on the General Discussion board to see what people thought.

Ok, so here is my problem.  I've been with 4 providers total, all within the past 9 weeks.  Before that I have been on a long dry streak which is why I started in the hobby.  And plus I've haven't had many women in the civie world.

Anyways, every girl that I have been with I have tried to practice the safest sex possible.  NO daty, NO fingering, NO kissing on the mouth, ONLY CBJ, and obviously ONLY sex with a condom.  For the first 3 girls I didn't think about anything negative.  But for some reason after the 4th I have been worried about STDs lately.  I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what (because I am the type of person to get paranoid).  After all, the girls I was with in the civie world hadn't had a lot of partners, but who I have been with in the hobby world probably had hundreds of partners.  That's an overwhelming thought.  

So my question is, is a condom enough to be safe?  Am I just being paranoid?  I keep going over in my mind if I took the condom off right and if I wiped it down right without getting any of the girl's fluid on the tissue that I wiped on me.  I want to hear from both providers and hobbyists who have practiced the safe sex I have described above for a long time.  Have you ever gotten an STD?

I got tested two weeks ago and everything came back negative, but I know that some of the STDs don't show up right away, so I'm going back in three months and not having any sex until then.

hi

as a provider myself, I know I am extreamly careful of std's. I constantly get checked. In this profession, we are cleaner and safer then the girlyou met in the local club or bar last week. We know exactly who we have been with, when and where. We are never drunk and always remember everything that happened. We tend not to make the same mistakes civies make

but if you are stillnervous, get tested. Maybe you should pick one, and see her as a regular. This would lessen your worry.

goodluck

Bridgette

Do a search, back on the main page at the top, of this board, is a blue box, "search messages" Click on it. Then type in std for your search. Set the days at 360, one year should give you plenty of reading material.
This search function is fantastic when you have questions, as most newbies have. Many,if not all topics concerning newbies has been discussed previously on this board.  And since you've seen 4 ladies, how come you haven't written any reviews? Good luck.