If you have gone through a Provider's verification procedure (referrals, P411, whatever), she is often a little more flexible about discussing specifics. Some are then totally open, some are still cautious. Try to feel things out. . In the case of anal, especially if mentioned on her website, you can do as mrfisher suggested. Or even get a little more suggestive. "I hope you will be able to PREPARE ACCORDINGLY as I am interested in exploring all of your services." Warning: it's still hard to predict. Some will go ballistic and cut you off for saying "prepare accordingly." . As mrfisher said, if you avoid saying anything, your first meeting might have to stay vanilla but you can discuss what you would like to experience at subsequent meetings w/o having to say anything in emails or texts. Or she might be able to accommodate you at the first meeting, depending on what you are seeking. Toys? She might have some in her suitcase or night table drawer. Done! (If not, next time.) Outfit change? Two minutes for a switcheroo. Done! (If not the one you wanted, next time.) . Good luck!
Posted By: mrfisher
Re: That is always a bit of a conundrum.... There are certain things that you can request ahead of time that have no illegality attached to them, for example a clothing preference. But the real question always seems to come down to anal, assuming she has it listed on her menu, or her TER profile. Gals do need to prepare for that, but bringing it up risks breaching the etiquette against mentioning illegal acts. You could obliquely indicate your interest by saying something like you look forward to experiencing ALL the things you've read about her, hoping she gets the message. Maybe play the Doors "Backdoor Man" in the background if you're on the phone.
Otherwise, the only really good time for expressing what you want is BCD after the envelope has been set down. It's always better to err on the side of caution. If you intent to see the gal again, you can let her know what it is you would want to do the next time, if that's any consolation.
Hello TER community, Question So when you find your provider that you want to contact and the activities that you want to do for your session!. When is it the appropriate time to discuss that? I hear that it's the best advice to not say it over the phone, text, calls, or email but in person before the session starts. But I came across a couple of providers' I'm interested in. On their websites detail information application pages they ask you to tell them what do you want to do in order they can plan and cater to your session. What should one do at that point be polite and respond by saying when we meet, I will say what I want? Thanks
There are certain things that you can request ahead of time that have no illegality attached to them, for example a clothing preference.
But the real question always seems to come down to anal, assuming she has it listed on her menu, or her TER profile. Gals do need to prepare for that, but bringing it up risks breaching the etiquette against mentioning illegal acts. You could obliquely indicate your interest by saying something like you look forward to experiencing ALL the things you've read about her, hoping she gets the message. Maybe play the Doors "Backdoor Man" in the background if you're on the phone.
Otherwise, the only really good time for expressing what you want is BCD after the envelope has been set down. It's always better to err on the side of caution. If you intent to see the gal again, you can let her know what it is you would want to do the next time, if that's any consolation.
Good advice here. Many providers who offer Greek clearly indicate this with a special name for the session (e.g. "PSE") and an upchage, which helps clarify expectations.
If you have gone through a Provider's verification procedure (referrals, P411, whatever), she is often a little more flexible about discussing specifics. Some are then totally open, some are still cautious. Try to feel things out. . In the case of anal, especially if mentioned on her website, you can do as mrfisher suggested. Or even get a little more suggestive. "I hope you will be able to PREPARE ACCORDINGLY as I am interested in exploring all of your services." Warning: it's still hard to predict. Some will go ballistic and cut you off for saying "prepare accordingly." . As mrfisher said, if you avoid saying anything, your first meeting might have to stay vanilla but you can discuss what you would like to experience at subsequent meetings w/o having to say anything in emails or texts. Or she might be able to accommodate you at the first meeting, depending on what you are seeking. Toys? She might have some in her suitcase or night table drawer. Done! (If not, next time.) Outfit change? Two minutes for a switcheroo. Done! (If not the one you wanted, next time.) . Good luck!
Posted By: mrfisher
Re: That is always a bit of a conundrum.... There are certain things that you can request ahead of time that have no illegality attached to them, for example a clothing preference.
But the real question always seems to come down to anal, assuming she has it listed on her menu, or her TER profile. Gals do need to prepare for that, but bringing it up risks breaching the etiquette against mentioning illegal acts. You could obliquely indicate your interest by saying something like you look forward to experiencing ALL the things you've read about her, hoping she gets the message. Maybe play the Doors "Backdoor Man" in the background if you're on the phone.
Otherwise, the only really good time for expressing what you want is BCD after the envelope has been set down. It's always better to err on the side of caution. If you intent to see the gal again, you can let her know what it is you would want to do the next time, if that's any consolation.
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