: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : Saying Hi

IvyO See my TER Reviews 1315 reads

posted 9 years ago

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Hi Everyone:

My name is Ivy ebony female from the Carolinas. Im new to TER but not the provider lifestyle. Im just familiarizing myself with the site and learning new things, thought I would drop in and say "Hi". Bp brought me here.

2648667 31 Reviews 339 reads

posted 9 years ago

2 / 23

Hello and welcome, Ivy

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Meena Valero See my TER Reviews 446 reads

posted 9 years ago

3 / 23

I recommend buying VIP so you can use the private message system here on TER

Once you get a review, you ask TER to link the review to your username. Then you will have free, limited provider VIP, which includes the use of the PM system, and being able to read your own reviews.

In the mean time, you can pay for VIP. I prefer to pay for VIP myself, as it offers more features than provider VIP alone.

My other piece of advice: Be *extremely* wary of taking advice from some hobbyists. Other women are more likely to have your best interests in mind.

-- Modified on 4/26/2016 8:42:12 PM

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 305 reads

posted 9 years ago

4 / 23

Welcome Ivy.

Everyone new to TER should read the self help center (link above). If you have any questions after reading it, this is the forum to come back to and ask them. We are here to help.

LLAP,
Swim

GaGambler 491 reads

posted 9 years ago

5 / 23

I might also add that you should be more careful of some of the guys than others

Meena is 100% correct, the ladies are much less likely to have ulterior motives when making offers to help than some guys. You should especially be wary of guys who offer to take you under their wing, write a great review for you and generally get your business off to a rocking start if you will "only give them a free or discounted session" There really should be no place on the board/s for these predators, but alas TER is not 100% free from them.

Also keep in mind the guys can help you from the perspective of "what does a customer like?" but the other ladies can give you much better advice as far as what it takes to generate business, touring advice and most importantly, how to stay safe. Experienced ladies like Meena and our unofficial hostess Debbie The Nooner Girl are a couple of ladies always willing to help out a new girl here.

IvyO See my TER Reviews 284 reads

posted 9 years ago

6 / 23

Re: Welcome Ivy.

Thank you!

Posted By: swimtrekr

Everyone new to TER should read the self help center (link above). If you have any questions after reading it, this is the forum to come back to and ask them. We are here to help.

LLAP,
Swim

IvyO See my TER Reviews 372 reads

posted 9 years ago

7 / 23

Re: I recommend buying VIP so you can use the private message system here on TER

Hi Meena Valero:

Thanks so much for your response and I appreciate the jewels you shared. Reminds me to be very careful. I hope to speak with you soon as Im cleared for my VIP membership.

IvyO See my TER Reviews 369 reads

posted 9 years ago

8 / 23

Re: I might also add that you should be more careful of some of the guys than others

Hi GaGambler:

Thanks for the pieces of knowledge. I appreciate it and took note

GaGambler 351 reads

posted 9 years ago

9 / 23

A couple of more things to add to my earlier advice

First off, it would be greatly to your benefit to link your ad/website to all of your posts, EXCEPT those posts that start a new thread, AKA an "OP". This will give you a lot of exposure by allowing any guy (or gal) reading one of your posts the ability to simply click on your link to find out who and where you are. Just remember not to do so on an "OP" or it will be considered an ad post and be rejected by admin.

The other thing is that there are many providers from the Carolinas that are active here, several of them are friends of mine who would be happy to help out a new lady here. Feel free to post both here and on your regional board if you need advice or if you just want to let everyone know you are around and to get to know the guys and gals of your local community.

Once again, welcome to the neighborhood

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 397 reads

posted 9 years ago

10 / 23

Welcome.Promoting business.

Posted By: cummy_girl

Hi Everyone:

My name is Ivy ebony female from the Carolinas. Im new to TER but not the provider lifestyle. Im just familiarizing myself with the site and learning new things, thought I would drop in and say "Hi". Bp brought me here.

IvyO See my TER Reviews 335 reads

posted 9 years ago

11 / 23

Re: A couple of more things to add to my earlier advice

Quick question...what does "OP" mean? I have a photo shoot planned for next week that Im really nervous about because I've always took my own photos. But professional photos do look a lot better and I requested a consent not to disclose. Hopefully my website/eros will be completed soon with fresh photos.

I will be over in the Regional Board as well. Hope to see you there.

Thanks again for taking the time to help me. I really appreciate it.

~Ivy

GaGambler 309 reads

posted 9 years ago

12 / 23

Depending on context "OP" means either "Original Post" or "Original Poster"

IOW a post or poster that begins a thread and not a post responding to someone else's post.

TER has ruled that an OP with a link to your ad or web site is an "ad post" ad posts on any discussion board are prohibited. OTOH it is completely permissible to respond to someone else post and link your ad or web site to your post. It's a great way to make sure people know who you are, where you are, and that you are available and hot (I am just assuming you are hot. lol)

Meena Valero See my TER Reviews 293 reads

posted 9 years ago

13 / 23

Re: Depending on context

IOW = In other words

OTOH = On the other hand

Posted By: GaGambler

IOW a post or poster that begins a thread and not a post responding to someone else's post.

TER has ruled that an OP with a link to your ad or web site is an "ad post" ad posts on any discussion board are prohibited. OTOH it is completely permissible to respond to someone else post and link your ad or web site to your post. It's a great way to make sure people know who you are, where you are, and that you are available and hot (I am just assuming you are hot. lol)

-- Modified on 4/27/2016 10:45:37 PM

impposter 49 Reviews 323 reads

posted 9 years ago

14 / 23

Advice on photo shoot

You could use the Search button to look thru the Newbie Board (and other boards) for various keywords having to do with photoshoots - there are MANY! Change the date range from 30/0 to something like 100/0 or 400/0.

Some key points:
- Consider having your pics watermarked to reduce the likelihood of unauthorized use (being stolen).
- Some pro photogs will add their watermark to the pics (free advertising for them).
- Read the contract and ask Qs before signing.
- From previous posts, I gather that a shoot might involve 50 to 100 snaps of which you get to choose 6 or 10 to keep. If you want more pics from that set, you pay extra for each image.
- Bring a friend or even a pro (or student) cosmetologist to help with wardrobe and make-up changes so you don't waste studio time.

If it hasn't been posted while I've been typing, check out the Photo Only board (for posting your pics; read the rules). Check out your local Ad board and posting rules.

It takes time to get your first review ... usually MORE time than most people hope for. Be patient. If your current clients don't know about TER, you can mention it to them and ask them to write a review.

So much more ....

GOOD LUCK

anomy08513 58 Reviews 302 reads

posted 9 years ago

15 / 23

Hello

Welcome Ivy. What part of the Carolinas? Welcome to TER, I'm sure you will love it.

IvyO See my TER Reviews 322 reads

posted 9 years ago

16 / 23

Re: Depending on context

Thanks Meena!!

IvyO See my TER Reviews 275 reads

posted 9 years ago

17 / 23

Re: Advice on photo shoot

Awesome jewels! Thank YOU! Although I chuckled when reading about the professional photo thief's I cant be surprised. The risks associated with the internet can be serious, unfortunately. Actually, when I made my appointment for my shoot it didnt cross my mind to request to have them watermarked. However, I will be sending a email request to the photographer....TONIGHT! You are correct about the number of snaps and images provided. The package I purchased comes with 10 images.

Question: What do you mean by "it takes time to get review"? Do you mean 6months...longer? I've heard people mention reviews but it sounds like getting reviews and screening go hand-and-hand. Oh yeah I recently learned the importance of "patience" in this business. Perhaps both the money and reviews can get off to a slow start. lol

Thanks again,

~Ivy

Posted By: impposter

You could use the Search button to look thru the Newbie Board (and other boards) for various keywords having to do with photoshoots - there are MANY! Change the date range from 30/0 to something like 100/0 or 400/0.

Some key points:
- Consider having your pics watermarked to reduce the likelihood of unauthorized use (being stolen).
- Some pro photogs will add their watermark to the pics (free advertising for them).
- Read the contract and ask Qs before signing.
- From previous posts, I gather that a shoot might involve 50 to 100 snaps of which you get to choose 6 or 10 to keep. If you want more pics from that set, you pay extra for each image.
- Bring a friend or even a pro (or student) cosmetologist to help with wardrobe and make-up changes so you don't waste studio time.

If it hasn't been posted while I've been typing, check out the Photo Only board (for posting your pics; read the rules). Check out your local Ad board and posting rules.

It takes time to get your first review ... usually MORE time than most people hope for. Be patient. If your current clients don't know about TER, you can mention it to them and ask them to write a review.

So much more ....

GOOD LUCK!

IvyO See my TER Reviews 280 reads

posted 9 years ago

18 / 23

Re: Hello

Hi Superfan:

Thank you! I live on the edge of Charlotte and Rock Hill. What part of the carolinas are you located?

impposter 49 Reviews 407 reads

posted 9 years ago

19 / 23

Re: Advice on photo shoot

Scenarios:
1. Thief copies your pics using YOUR name but a different phone number to capture people looking to meet you. "Ivy is a fake! I showed up and it was a different girl!"

2. Thief copies your pics using her own name and phone. Web surfers blame you: "Ivy uses multiple names and multiple phone numbers! Watch out!"

3. And others that can harm your rep and business.

Watermarks: You can always add your own watermark, so ask your photog for the raw pics, too. Opinions differ as to WHAT to watermark: phone, website, name, ...; WHERE to watermark: legs, torso, side, ...

Posted By: cummy_girl

Awesome jewels! Thank YOU! Although I chuckled when reading about the professional photo thief's I cant be surprised. The risks associated with the internet can be serious, unfortunately. Actually, when I made my appointment for my shoot it didnt cross my mind to request to have them watermarked. However, I will be sending a email request to the photographer....TONIGHT! You are correct about the number of snaps and images provided. The package I purchased comes with 10 images.

Your first (approved and posted) review also creates your Profile. Many newbies come to TER Newbie and hope the very next guy will write their review and that the new Profile will be up in 3 days! It usually takes longer than that (based on posts I've read). A month might be more realistic; longer in some cases.

You've been doing this a while (w/o TER). Maybe you can ask a regular to write a review ... except he might not even know about TER. Tell him! A newbie reviewer will not get his review approved as fast as an established reviewer.

To have access to PM before you get a Profile and free limited VIP, you can pay for full VIP. I suggest monthly, using anonymous gift card payment because it appears to be fast and easy. If your Profile goes up in that time, no need to pay for more VIP, if you need another month, just renew with another gift card payment.

Question: What do you mean by "it takes time to get review"? Do you mean 6months...longer? I've heard people mention reviews but it sounds like getting reviews and screening go hand-and-hand. Oh yeah I recently learned the importance of "patience" in this business. Perhaps both the money and reviews can get off to a slow start. lol

Good luck!

-- Modified on 4/28/2016 11:55:58 PM

anomy08513 58 Reviews 285 reads

posted 9 years ago

20 / 23

Re: Hello

I live in ATL but travel to Charlotte and Raleigh often for work. I will actually be there next month. Send me a PM with a link to your ad or I will be on the lookout for an Ivy in the area.

IvyO See my TER Reviews 302 reads

posted 9 years ago

21 / 23

Re: Hello

That sounds good! I plan to have part of my website of and running by Wednesday so I will certainly send you a note when its up. I look forward to possibly meeting you.

IvyO See my TER Reviews 287 reads

posted 9 years ago

22 / 23

Re: Advice on photo shoot

Good Morning Impposter:

You most certainly have been an amazing help since my post. My photographer said that we could create a watermark for image protection. Of course there is all the technical stuff such as if the image is too big it will take away from the look of the photo and if its too small then the photo thief can easily use them as their own. My shoot isnt until Friday so I plan to brainstorm until them. It took forever to find a photographer I trusted, and could afford. It appears my next phase is to create a way to secure the protection of my photos. Lol...something so childish is at the same time serious. In a perfect world we would all be able to see one another secrets/flaws because they do exist. Ohhhh perfect world!!

So my current friends (I have 2 of them) are more sugar daddy material. They only want me for themselves and to even ask them to write a review for me would be like asking the thief not to steal my photos. Not good! However, I do have the professional shoot on Friday and it takes a week to edit. Hopefully I can attract the right viewer with a good attitude that wouldnt mind helping a sista out and writing a review.

Hope youre having a good weekend. If you dont mind me asking, where are you located? I live on the boarder line of Charlotte and Rock Hill. I realized that I like Charlotte a lot more and plan to move into the city by August.

ttyl,

~Ivy

SamanthaBright See my TER Reviews 277 reads

posted 9 years ago

23 / 23

Welcome

Hello and welcome. I'm not new to providing but I am new like you to the TER forums!!!