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I'm a provider and I believe if the girl has verified you to where she feels comfortable why make it so difficult I understand safety an security  I guess what I'm saying is if I were the provider doing an in call I would want to make it as convenient as possible for the hobbyist to find me so that one he is in a good mood there's nothing more frustrating then driving around lost trying to find some thing lol and like other have said driving around a parking lot or waiting causes attention just all around a bad scenario  

And two you want to make him as happy as possible so you can get a good review from what I read on the message boards all the hobbyists talk to each other and one bad experience can mess every thing up for you so once again just try to make it as convenient as possible so every ones happy and safe that's what it's all about at the end of the day right  

Xoxo kayden

We have all done it.. Call the lady dive to a location get a second call with more directions that hopefully leads to bliss.

But what if things go wrong? Should ladies give out the address details on the second call? For example building 123 apt 10  
OR the grand hotel. north tower room 5. Instead of take elevator to the 3 floor and I am in the second door on the right. knowing there are 5 buildings each with an elevator!  

Look we are here so why still all the secrecy about the address?

She will give you what information she is comfortable with at the time she feels is right.  If you don't want to play by her rules, see someone else.

Yes, it's always possible for things to go awry, but hopefully, it will work out for the best.

Swim

Generally good advice for a newbie but I just went on a 45min hunt as a result of bad directions, locked gates and locked doors with no cell reception or exits to daylight!  Something I will never do again and I am still rather pissed I even allowed it to happen. So You are also right I have rules too and i will just move on.. But I wish I would have known before I wasted my time.  

Do you or the ladies think we can not read the address on the house/door? Whats the problem!

And on another adventure you should have seen the look on the old couples face when I knocked on the last door at the end and said I am here for the threesome!! LOL

Posted By: swimtrekr
She will give you what information she is comfortable with at the time she feels is right.  If you don't want to play by her rules, see someone else.  
   
 Yes, it's always possible for things to go awry, but hopefully, it will work out for the best.  
   
 Swim

Unfortunately, shit does happen, it's just worse when it happens to you, or me, or any other client of a provider.  Some girls are just not real good at directing you to their incall.  Since I don't know where you found the girl who could not direct you, it's hard to say much more.  Stick to well-reviewed providers and hopefully this problem will be minimized.

Swim

The lady really should be able to give good directions both to the call point & from there to her.  If there are multi buildings, she should make that clear.  She need not count the door ways but knowing which way to turn off the elevator can be a big help...  or even how to find & which elevator to take.  
I had one where I met a lady in an apartment & the numbers were not well lighted...  a valid complaint!  She should be prepared to give night time directions if she makes evening appointments.

I have said many times, you should be able to get close with the first call a gas station fast food place etc. I am sure the gals don't want us showing up early, but getting reasonably close should be OK

what both parties should understand is that hotel lots are often where the hotel security video starts.  I've had Police drive through giving me the hairy eye ball...  hotel had requested extra patrols to protect customer's cars.  So just sitting in your parked car reading the newspaper or listening to music is just not discreet.  Yes, I've done it too!  But I won't anymore.  

Given that it takes time to travel to her location & traffic & weather or ???  can not be predicted with certainty.  (Yes, I got weather stranded enroute once.)  So one should plan to arrive early.  There's an obvious conflict in what I just wrote.

After I have located the call point, I withdraw to the corner coffee shop.  Typically I've found them within sight or nearly so.  With repeat dates, I even call from the coffee lot (turned around & headed out).  And I know I'm within 2 minutes of the call point.  These days, it's common for folks to use the coffee WiFi while enjoying a brewski...  I've had (legit) business meetings at one where I met the other exec half way.  

If both lady & client are prepared, the call should go totally smoothly.  SHE knows the client is about to call.  It's really inexcusable for her to not be able to give proper directions.  This has evolved some with the widespread use of GPS.  I had one gal give me an address...  GPS got me close when I discovered the number was between 2 buildings.  It was a good system.  I stopped & she guided me in from there.  I'd rather have a nearby address in my GPS than have to have my hobby phone in my ear while driving...

I'm a provider and I believe if the girl has verified you to where she feels comfortable why make it so difficult I understand safety an security  I guess what I'm saying is if I were the provider doing an in call I would want to make it as convenient as possible for the hobbyist to find me so that one he is in a good mood there's nothing more frustrating then driving around lost trying to find some thing lol and like other have said driving around a parking lot or waiting causes attention just all around a bad scenario  

And two you want to make him as happy as possible so you can get a good review from what I read on the message boards all the hobbyists talk to each other and one bad experience can mess every thing up for you so once again just try to make it as convenient as possible so every ones happy and safe that's what it's all about at the end of the day right  

Xoxo kayden

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