Newbie - FAQ

"Love the One You're With"
shudaknownbetter 1022 reads
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I do find a repeat is a delightful experience...  If the first was not great there will be no second visit.  That said, I'm not much interested in notching my bedpost as many times as possible before I die.  I select ladies that appear, at least on the surface, have the potential to become a Fav.  
I do find it best to rotate among the Favorites...  Going exclusive seems to lead to problems.
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mrfisher 115 Reviews 580 reads
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gets better and better.

As I learn more about a person and we become comfortable and establish a bond, each session is a delightful mix of the familiar with the opportunity to expand.

I have seen one gal for over twenty years and look forward to each meeting eagerly.

I agree with everyone that it is good to have several favorites; and because some gals do come and go, it's good to keep sampling new gals as they come along.

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Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 776 reads
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I absolutely love spending time with my ATF.  I have been seeing her once or twice a month for about five years now and it never gets old.  In fact, it keeps getting better.  We both know what the other likes and we have a great time before and after with small talk and off the clock meals etc.  

Still, there are two or three other semi-regulars that I see and I am always interested in seeing a new girl, especially when I travel for work!

cedar2221 32 Reviews 2153 reads
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I've been with 3 providers since I started hobbying about 3 months ago, one of them twice.  The second visit with the one provider was the best by far.  The comfort factor for both of us was hugely apparent.  So, my question for the experienced hobbyists is what do you find most enjoyable, the adreneline rush of experincing a provider for the first time or the excitement and familiarity of a trusted provider?

tec870 13 Reviews 877 reads
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I'm a big believer in going with the Provider you have the most comfort level with, but it is good to have several favorites to accommodate changing schedules, availability, and to keep that "rush" of a new encounter.  You may consider a hunting expedition (see different Providers) for a time just to develop a list of ATFs.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 553 reads
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reviews or word of mouth acolades from hobbyists I know.  The other 2/3's of my dates are repeat ladies.  I have found this mix works best for me; some new thrills and some comfort level.

OuchitHurts 565 reads
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As a hobbiest, I prefer the repeat visits, they seem less choreographed.  However, an experienced hobbiest once said never see the same lady more than 3 times.  pretty good advice that can prevent emotions, laziness, etc.

Ladies do you like the "excitement" of knocking on a door and not knowing what you will find or walking in to same ole same ole??

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