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barpalm56 2 Reviews 1092 reads
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I am truly a newbie.  In fact, I have not yet had an encounter with a provider and am looking forward to doing so.  I have found several who interest me and with whom I'd like to meet.  However, they all require as part of their screening process either references or verifiable employment information.  Since I haven't yet visited a provider, I obviously cannot provide any references.  As for employment info, all my income is generated by my investment portfolio and so I do not have an employer either.  I am concerned about how to get past this screening hurdle so I can begin enjoying this fine hobby.  Suggestions?  Thank you.

Zangari 489 reads
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You're not the only self-employed person on this board; P411 or DateCheck should be able to verify you in other ways.  But it sounds like you'd rather *avoid* screening, which will raise a red flag with the smarter providers.  

 You can go with Backpage girls--I'm sure many of them don't screen.   Since you're a high-risk client (no screening), you may have to see high-risk girls.  

 Your other option is the sugarbowl, which doesn't require screening, but it usually takes longer to get laid.  --

DJ1985 21 Reviews 357 reads
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Many providers have more than two ways to verify you. Explain your situation and work with her to get over the screening hurdle, then go have a good time.  

Posted By: barpalm56
I am truly a newbie.  In fact, I have not yet had an encounter with a provider and am looking forward to doing so.  I have found several who interest me and with whom I'd like to meet.  However, they all require as part of their screening process either references or verifiable employment information.  Since I haven't yet visited a provider, I obviously cannot provide any references.  As for employment info, all my income is generated by my investment portfolio and so I do not have an employer either.  I am concerned about how to get past this screening hurdle so I can begin enjoying this fine hobby.  Suggestions?  Thank you.

barpalm56 2 Reviews 360 reads
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Thank you for the helpful responses.  Just to be clear...I have no objections at all to the screening process per se...on the contrary, I understand and appreciate its importance in providing security for all.  I'm just worried about how to get through it given my situation.  Thanks again.

1192967 45 Reviews 343 reads
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...They will work with you to verify using alternate methods.

MrDesq 5 Reviews 202 reads
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I have the same problem with a twist. I began as a newbie hobbyist in 2003-04. I haven't seen a proper provider since then. I recently decided to jump back in the pool for my trip to Las Vegas in July. I have a TER handle (obviously) as well as RS2K verification. However, I cannot provide recent references because I haven't seen anyone for over 10 years. This young & popular provider in San Diego brushed me off and didn't want to work with me on getting verified. Perhaps she didn't want me as a client, that's the vibe I got. Besides, I was offering to hire her for a multi-day engagement, we are talking a substantial amount of money.

Any veteran gents have any suggestions for me other than to go see a newbie provider just to get a reference?

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