So I saw my first provider this past week, had a great time except for one issue: I couldn't get off a second time.
First round went by just fine, and I practically stayed hard. No issue with the erection and we had plenty of time, just couldn't get off no matter what I/she did. Maybe it was nerves? I'm only in my late 20's so it has me concerned. Haven't tried multiple pops since my divorce but it wasn't a huge issue then.
Anyone have input on this manner? Will be seeing another provider in the next few weeks but I'd like to fix or at least get a hold on this issue first.
If only a half hour or so, that may not be enough time.
Try a longer session and see if that helps.
Also, be sure you are in very good physical shape, well rested, hydrated, etc.
It could be lots of things, including that you're nervous or need to "amortize" your donation over multiple pops to feel you got value for it. But that approach is sure to backfire. Just go there, pace yourself and let whatever happens happen. It's all good. It takes time to get comfortable in this weird little world.
Probably just a nerves thing. What you said about justifying the donation might have rang true as well. I had a great time, and it was well worth it, just a little embarrassed at the end that's all. As for how long went between attempts...about 20 minutes from the first pop to the start of round 2.
Try try again I guess. 
Well, not being your doctor it's hard to tell for sure what the etiology of this was due to. But, from my own experience I suspect you were simply nervous. I'm fat and in my mid forties, but I can always fire tubes one and two, in a two hour session, as it were. And if I pop number one early, I can sometimes get off a third time. Just relax and go for it.
How long between rounds does it normally take to be ready for round two for you? Everyone is different in this regard...some can muster this routinely, others not. Since this was you first foray into the hobby, and you had a time limit that you typically hadn't had to deal with in the past, plus the nerves of being your first hobby experience...just chalk it up, and try again. Personally, I no longer really care about rushing round two...round one is enough, and if round two happens, it happens. If not, just cuddle, or play with her...
I would also check (well basically u asking urself) are u able to pop twice within an hr (say when u are by urself)? That's another gauge u can use to test urself with too, if with ur favorite vids or whatnot can u get the second shot off in that 60 min. The other thing too is try to not to hold off too long on the first one, sometimes holding back causes u problems when u are ready to go. Anyways best wishes, def keep exercising keep a good diet and good mental state.
I have exactly the same issue and to say the least it is very frustrating. It definitely seemed like the second half of the session was pretty much a waste as far as being able to get off no matter what the lady did. The way I have hadkled it is to go to the 30 minute sessions if available. That did not really fix the issue but with the pricing of the half hour sessions I can use the saved money for an additional session and perhaps a new provider that looks interesting.
its .like tryn to catch a slippery eel. dont put her thru all that if you see it aint gettn up second time just talk rest a time, have her giv ya a back rubn. just cuz you pay for hour dont mean you nessecarily have to go like a jack rabbit hole time or she s expectin you too! I honestly love the appts that are not a terrible hard core full 60 min non stop marathon, thats not always the best thing to be either, if you want her to have you back again!
So I am in bed with a PSE provider enjoying the afterglow. It was a nice room with cool music playing. I look to my left and see this beautiful woman. "Ahhhh. This is nice" I say. While snuggling up to her huge tits.
Her expression changed. She seemed a little pissed off. Almost like she was thinking "You little shit. Call my PSE experience nice??? Ill show you, you little fucker." With a deviant grin she turns to her purse and pulls out a little vibrating thingy. WHOA! What's that! I exclaimed. It's just a small toy. Trust me. She says. Me, being the adventurous newbie that I am will try anything once. It was pretty awesome. A little bbj/hj plus a buzz produced the best second pop I have ever felt. I was laughing hysterically at the fact that she did that to me, and how good it felt.
That...
- my nervousness (including nerves around a beautiful woman) can influence second pop or not
- how tired I am can also affect it
- how intensely connected to the woman, and how skilled certainly matters, and, most frequently
- how long I wait (usually need 40-50 min refractory period).
So, could be a lot of things.
Bottom line: don't stress out about it... When you get more hobbying experience under your belt, you'll start popping twice if you give yourself enough time and pick the right-fitting woman.
If I see someone and their first pop is CIM, it's more unlikely they can repeat in the hour. Longer appointments allows a little more time to get the mojo back but CIM seems to drain a man a little more. Good luck and hobbying
