So I have been doing my homework yesterday and today on ER and have yet to reach any one that would be willing to meet today. I had no idea that it was this difficult to reach someone for same day visits. I'm very new to this but have been learning alot from someone that has experience with this. Any tips to help in scheduling a visit today? Since Im not a vip , please just respond her since I cant get emails ... Thanks in advance to any providers or hobbyist that give me some advice.

you can find out who is newbie friendly.

You will need to join a verification service or be willing to give employment info until you can get some cred. This is especially true if you are trying to make same day appointments.

It's been awhile but I figured that one out about, oh, 15 or 20 minutes after I got on this site almost 10 years ago!  It's incredibly cost effective (what, $20 a month, when you're planning on spending hundreds), incredibly user friendly (the review search engine is about as simple to use as it could be) and you can be self reliant, instead of expecting other people to do your homework for you!  Once I started using the VIP, I never had any problem similar to what you state above!

...You said you were doing your homework on ER. I'm going to assume you meant TER. If you really meant ER we are going to need to know what that means. But our advice would still be get the VIP membership. It is $30 dollars a month if you get the month to month plan. $20 a month if you get the quarterly plan. Either is a real deal when compared to the wasted money of an unsatisfactory session or worse a rob, or rip-off, etc.

If you want to see someone tomorrow (Monday the 2nd) I suggest an agency. Some will verify you over the phone using whatever their method of screening is. Otherwise you will have to go through an independent provider's screening and it takes time. (I actually know of an agency in my area that is "ER" in case that is what you meant. They would screen you over the phone quickly and easily.)

There are some providers that don't screen or would see you at an hours notice but I wouldn't recommend you see one of them. See above about rip-off, rob, etc. You may get lucky and find a good one but luck isn't a plan.  

Keep doing your homework here. You will find that you need to be screened by an independent provider before she will see you. There are many discussions here about that. Check the Self-Help Center link at the top right of any message board. It is located under the red and white life preserver. There is a lot of info and some of it deals with screening.

Get informed.

Hi I am a newbie too.  And I am working on getting accepted on the verification sites like datecheck and preferred411.  I think that would help you too.
-Camille-

Ways to context agencies and all providers; ways to get started

1) Join TER VIP--you can do it for $30 a month.
2) Find reviews on TER--different veterans have their own number but find several consistent reviews.
3) TER lists agencies that are reputable.  Look at the Ads for your local area on TER.  Agencies that are reputable and run good businesses post regularly on them.
TER also has Site reviews of providers and agencies listed by cities under the Tab "Site Reviews."
4) If you are TER VIP and you read several reviews, you can try PMing the reviewer.  Many TER vets will be happy to help you.
5) Join P411 or a verification site like it (Date-Check, etc.) Agencies and providers listed there are screened and verified.
6) Read the links that are available to you at the top right of the TER page by clicking the hyperlink under the  life preserver. It's this link:

Self Help Center (under the life preserver at the upper right of the TER web page)
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/messageList.asp?boardID=69

7) Go to the bottom of a TER page and click on Site Map and explore the sites that apply to you
http://www.theeroticreview.com/site_map/
8) Definitely on this Newbie Board read back about 10 pages of posts and threads--the comments by people can be an invaluable help to you--both providers and clients.
9) Don't hesitate to post any questions here.  Swimtrecker and his regulars do an excellent job and they will gladly give you solid advise every time.

As a newbie, you will encounter much difficulty in making a same day date.  No quality provider is going to see you without some kind of screening, and I would suspect a same day visit would probably be out of the question.  You have alreay been given good advice, regarding VIP membership here, it's essential.  You should also look into one or more of the verification sites, DateCheck, Preferred411, or RoomService2000.  These will help you for screening, but it still takes time.

Personally, I do not like same day dates, I like the anticipation, the build-up.  I can't give you any tips for getting a same day visit, you have too much going against you right now.  Once you have seen some providers, written some reviews, and been verified by others, you may have better luck.  For now, I'd say forget trying to make a same day date.  You could probably get one from a site like backpage, or other ad site, but you are taking a BIG chance there.

Swim

The ONLY way I will do a same day is A. If I am on tour and already set up in a hotel, and that is provided I am not booked. B. IF I can screen that newbie from employment, not refs. Providers do not exactly run to the email or phone to return refs asap, like a few of us do so I am not running myself ragged trying to contact your refs, get ready, and wait on them to respond.

You need to give more advance, or you're seriously limiting yourself to the type of women who are going to see you. Even with a P411 or Date-Check, I am still going to contact 2 ladies about you. Just an "ok" means nothing to me.

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