Make sure to read the juicy details, so you match your desires with the lady's skill set, maybe you should consider a massage lady.  Also check out www.condomdepot.com  It has a wide assortment of condoms.  Find a condom that fits you. Bringing your own condom to a date is a tricky thing, many ladies will insist using her condoms, but occasionally if you bring your own, in an unopened box the lady will let you use them. But ask nicely and if she declines, be cool about it. Also many experienced providers will have an assortment of condoms, as she is very aware that condoms are not a one size fits all situation. Finally, I've been with some very talented ladies, who can put the condom on you , using their mouth, it keeps the momentum going and there isn't that break in the session for condom installation.

and find lots of way to have a wicked good time.

Sometimes there's a gal who really needs to have the intercourse, and she will let me know, and I'll be more than happy to comply; but frequently gals don't care one way or the other.

And mostly because the condoms killed my erection. My size is fairly average, maybe a little on the thick side, but I find most regular condoms not to fit very well. Magnums work much better for me, maybe you should try them?

25mg of Viagra also helped me maintain an erection regardless of level of attractiveness of the provider, condoms, etc. It's good insurance against a wasted session.

I have clients that I see regularly *every week or so* that don't seek intercourse. We have fun and enjoy each others company,touching kissing ect. While there's still intimacy ,there's no sex. I think this is more common then people think. I also have clients that ive never even seen naked. Everyone has something different they are seeking.

It often works for gents who do not like regular condoms.

My very first time as a client didn't include having sex since I was also still a virgin! I've since discovered that I like oral more and believe I feel that way because of condoms. LOL

When I first started hobbying I had the same issue, but if you find the right provider with a tight kitty, it helps a lot.

Also if you can't keep an erection during sex with a condom on, then how will you keep on during CBJ. Unless you pay providers extra, and most will still decline. You will still have to wear a comdon during oral sex.

Real talk I highly advise you not you to let a provider give you oral without a condom. Think of how many other dudes she given head to without a condom also.