Never, never, never use your own place as an incall. I suppose there are some ladies who have, but it is very dangerous; date gone wrong, nosy neighbors, etc. I think some of the ladies here can give you a more indepth explanation.

I have gone to incals in a providers home, at a special designated incal location, and also at various and random hotels. I agree with Mattradd, that having them in your home seems risky in many ways, but I have never had a problem with any of these types of incal.

Some of the other ladies may help you pick a hotel to do incal, it should be a busy hotel so that extra traffic is not noticed.

Jim

I have one Fav lady who does incalls at her home with attached office...  she has a home based business (by appointment only) so the occasional gentleman caller blends in easily.  BUT, she is extremely low volume & takes extra care in screening.  

A set incall location has a lot of risks with neighbors...  who will be less than thrilled.  Maybe there are rare locations which would be adequately discrete.  Even then, best rent the condo & move periodically.
It would be extremely risky to provide from where you actually reside.

Hotels (NOT motels) are the safest.  As was stated, you want one with a lot of lobby traffic so a few more is not noticeable.  You change rooms every day or so.  You change hotels frequently.  You quickly learn which hotels are most suitable.  Learn the layouts of each so you can direct your guests.  (Through the lobby, turn left to the elevators...    Have them call you from their car (not the lobby) at exactly the designated time.  

Frankly, many gentlemen prefer incalls...  They don't have a private space & don't want to leave tracks for others to follow (like credit cards).  I certainly do.
skb

Re: providing incalls?

I regulary read "I arrived at her apartment" in reviews.  How on earth is this a good thing.  My life experience tells that neighbors are nosey.  Men coming or going is too obvious, heck and most "apartments" have thin walls so any head banging is going to attract attention especially when the average stay is oh, say one hour.

I personally dont like incalls, and double that for a residence/apartment.  just my .02

All 'incalls' I have been to have been at a hotel provided by the lady. I actually usually leave extra when this happens to help her cover the additional cost, but it has never been asked for.

I know one Provider specifically mentioned to me that the desk thinks she has a family member who is sick and that she comes into town to visit quite often. I suppose this provides cover since the desk people would get to know her after a few times.

Probably good to mix it up at different hotels though.

The couple times I have picked up a hotal room, I have specifically requested a room right next to a back entrance so the Provider doesn't have to walk by the front desk. I appreciate it when gorls have done the same.

As has been said, a lot of guys do prefer incalls. I use a hotel room for these as I agree with the general consensus that using your own home is a very bad idea. Using hotel rooms is more expensive, but you could suggest a higher donation for incalls to offset this.

As you become more established as a provider, you may wish to consider renting a seperate location for incalls, depending on whether you can make the figures work. Personally, I keep coming back to this issue and considering it but I would have to be prepared to arrange more meetings in order to make it worthwhile and I prefer to be low volume.

Getting a nice place for incalls seems to work well for many ladies but it does create a financial commitment. For this reason, some ladies team up and split the cost of an incall apartment, coming to various kinds of agreements as to who can use it at particular times.