Okay, surprisingly, I have seen more providers that seem to offer DATO/Asian/rimming among their listed services.  Now, if a provider lists this service, does that definitely mean SHE will perform it on YOU, and not ONLY vice versa?  I mean, I have to think I would reciprocate, but I want to make sure if I seek and pay for this service that I get well taken care of in that area.

then you would think, yes, they expect to perform it.

A much better indication however, would be to check her reviews and see if her clients have all received these acts.

If she "advertises" it or any other specific sex act along with $ then she is advertising prostitution, and I would avoid her at all costs.  I only see escorts for their time and companionship.  What happens when we meet is all a product of my stunning looks and charm!  LOL!

Seriously, avoid anyone that's putting it "out there" for the world, i.e.... L.E. to see, it's just a matter of time...

That's kind of what I think.  I would expect it.  Yet, I have seen it listed right after DATY like "DATY, DATO..." so that makes me wonder.  The DATY is obviously performed on her, so when DATO is listed right with it, that would make me wonder.

What got me thinking, in part, is the relatively small number of providers that have GS on the menu.  Now, I would say that means the provider is the giver, but no doubt some men have a fantasy of being the giver, or at least mutual play in that area.

Fortunately, I have done most of my hobbying in Ontario where legality should never be an issue, providing you don't get caught up in some shady incall deal.

receive a GS, and she was a civie!

Damn that was fun, but good luck finding anyone to participate in that.

Even finding someone to give a GS is rare, I think you might have luck with the BDSM types.

Yeah, I don't think it appeals to 99.9% of women, and 99% of men.  It doesn't particularly appeal to me either, but the thought wouldn't bother me if I found that very rare woman that is into it at all.  My sense of sexual adventure is pretty much a 15 on a scale of 1 to 10, completely within the heterosexual realm.  Pretty much anything you can fathom I would try with a girl I like, as long as it stays somewhat sexual.  I would try some light domination stuff, but I don't think getting hit with a stick, wearing diapers, or some of that other stuff I've read has much of anything to do with sex and I still maintain I'm a 15 on the scale.  

No offense to those that enjoy BDSM.

I'm stunned that TER members actively encourage this practice, and that the system accomodates you.  It's estimated that 30% of the population has hemmorhoids.  Translation:  blood in the area, ingested into your mouth or hers.  

Besides the slight inconvenience of HIV, there's hepatitis and serious bacterial infection:  shigella, salmonella, e. coli, campylobacter and, oh yeah, intestinal parasites like giardia lambia and amoebas.  Trace fecal matter remains around everyone's anuses despite the most thorough washing.

It's very unfortunate that so many hobbyists dismiss these very real health risks with "well, life has risks to it...".  This, to me, is similar to a drunk complaining that not being able to drive when he's inebriated cramps his style.  It's very irresponsible.  

Ladies of TER, educate yourselves...do not engage in this practice outside a monogamous relationship without the use of dental dams.  Some of your clients may notgive a hoot about their own health or yours, but you can take care of yourselves.

You would be surprised how many people are into GS. I'm a BDSM pro and trust me, there wouldn't be a whole industry based around kink if there weren't more than 1% of people into it! There are several pro dommes in every major city into giving GS!