I have read many, many pages trying to find the answer to my question, so i will appollogize now if this a repeated question.
I have joined the VIP program here and enjoyed reading many of the reviews of girls and now i have my favorites list and would like to start contacting them.

I tried contacting one provider, I let her know about me being new to this and have not heard back. Is there a certain lingo or approach when sending an email or initial contact.

Any help would be appreciated!!

Say or write ANYTHING that is graphic at any time during your communication with the lady. Just explain when and how long you would like to see visit with her. I would avoid lavish praise, you can come off as desparate. Respect her request for verification information, if the information is more than you are willing to give, do not waste her time trying to bargin her down, move on the someone that request and amount of information that you are comfortable with. Deliver information to her in it's entirity, do not hold back information that you will give her once she confirms you, serious ladies will conclude that you are playing with them and end contact with you.
Give a lady up to four days to answer, many of the best providers have other pursuits other than providing, and they have to read through large amounts of email from would be hobbyists. If you do not have a response after four days, try someone else. Whenever I plan to meet a top provider that I have not seen before, I plan the visit two or more weeks in advance to insure that she has time to respond and we have time to plan the meeting.
Even after you have set up a meeting with a lady, I would have the names and numbers of other top choices from the meeting city with me if I were you. You should not contact them, but you should know their working days and hours, most top providers have such information on websites. I normally have a backup list of seven to ten ladies ordered by my interest in them, in case the lady that I have planned a meeting is a no show.

I will find out the status of some ladies on my backup list at the 3 day mark .... it doesn't do me any good if their not going to be available when I'm there so why have them on my list .. I usually say I will be in town ... and not to hold anything open for me .. but I do let them know ... this works out great if you just want to have a lunch or drinks during their down time .....

ALways tell her where you found her, TER or other web site. Always answer the questions that she requires. Tell her a little about yourself and your like and dislikes (not graphic). Finally tell her when and where you want to meet and for how long the appointment should be. I have found that giving all of this information I get a very high response rate, at least 8 out of 10. Good luck and be nice to the ladies.