there is a major difference between "conscious touch", regardless of what a licensing body says, and the low energy flim flam that has infested this hobby/business in the name of massage.
What's conscious touch ?
One, you feel a connection with the person massaging you. These is a high level of unspoken communication. If it feels indifferent, impersonal, uninteresting, that's because it is. That's what that person is saying through her hands. If it feels connected, personal, involving, then that's your conversation.
Two, you feel deep autonomic responses. Your body softens, even those places that are distal (i.e. not immediate to)to the area being massaged, your heart reales, your mood mellows out, you get into a dreamy alpha/theta state, and you lose all sense of time. If that happens, your getting a good massage.
Three, the massager knows how the body is put together, i.e. massages in the direction of venous blood flow, knows how to stay off nerves, which areas are relatively sensitive and which are relatively insensitive...
Four, conscious touch involves imagination, playfulness, emotional warmth (defensive, rigid, egotistical, paranoid, and other "hard boundary" personality types do not excel at massage, for obvious reasons), spiritual generosity, and a deep love of life. Real massage is a transmission from the core of another person's being.
It also has, like all else worth doing well, a learning curve that isn't particulaly steep, but goes on for vastly further than one anticipates at first glance. Like a low hill that you think continues on for a few hundred feet becomes a rising plain that goes on for miles without end. You never stop climbing, you never stop getting better or more adept, your intuition is always more refined. That's the real thing.
What is the difference between the two?
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I assume you meant massage as opposed to message. There is not much of a difference. If a place advertises for a body rub vs. massage, I would say there is a greater probability of it being sensual as opposed to just a massage or a massage with a hj to finish off.
Most of my clients tell me what a treat it is to actually get a REAL massage....upon further discussion, it becomes clear that many times, what's advertised as FBSM, is nothing more than a quick, light touch, body rub. If a Provider is advertising a Body Rub, perse, then, as has already been stated, it could be for legal reasons. Even a True,sensual, erotic massage, can be distinguished very easily from a mere Body rub. Yes, there is a difference. Kisses, Robyn
there is a major difference between "conscious touch", regardless of what a licensing body says, and the low energy flim flam that has infested this hobby/business in the name of massage.
What's conscious touch ?
One, you feel a connection with the person massaging you. These is a high level of unspoken communication. If it feels indifferent, impersonal, uninteresting, that's because it is. That's what that person is saying through her hands. If it feels connected, personal, involving, then that's your conversation.
Two, you feel deep autonomic responses. Your body softens, even those places that are distal (i.e. not immediate to)to the area being massaged, your heart reales, your mood mellows out, you get into a dreamy alpha/theta state, and you lose all sense of time. If that happens, your getting a good massage.
Three, the massager knows how the body is put together, i.e. massages in the direction of venous blood flow, knows how to stay off nerves, which areas are relatively sensitive and which are relatively insensitive...
Four, conscious touch involves imagination, playfulness, emotional warmth (defensive, rigid, egotistical, paranoid, and other "hard boundary" personality types do not excel at massage, for obvious reasons), spiritual generosity, and a deep love of life. Real massage is a transmission from the core of another person's being.
It also has, like all else worth doing well, a learning curve that isn't particulaly steep, but goes on for vastly further than one anticipates at first glance. Like a low hill that you think continues on for a few hundred feet becomes a rising plain that goes on for miles without end. You never stop climbing, you never stop getting better or more adept, your intuition is always more refined. That's the real thing.
WOW...You are so RIGHT On...I've never heard it said better. But as with all sensuality, some will "Get It" some won't. Sensuality is born, not made.The non-sensual will never be able to offer it, nor will they ever know what they've missed. Massage as well as Tantra, will speak to those that are open to hear, but sadly, many won't experience it only because it's not, the core of their being, with out the driving passion,they will settle and never search for more.
I think it may be to avert any possible legal problems.
In most areas you must be a LMT or Licensed Massage Therapist to give a massage, whereas a body rub may be construed as something entirely different. But they may have the same end result.
...techniques that are professionaly developed and designed to relieve certain types of body stress and muscular tension. There are numerous techniques, and the art is practiced by LMT's, or CMT's (LICENSED of CERTIFIED Massage Therapists). These people are State licensed to practice their trade, and are not usually providers in our sense of the word.
Many providers do offer massage, which in most cases is merely a body rub with varying degrees of hard and soft touch, depending on the girl and the wishes of the client. It isn't a real massage, but it still feels good, most of the time. Massage quality is part of the TER rating system and all Provider Profiles have info re her abilities in that area.
That said, there are providers who are also LMT's. I know of one in Houston, TX, and she is one of my ATF's, because she excels in all areas of endeavor.
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