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Happy 39 13 Reviews 5826 reads
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Thanks for the heads up. I appreciate the thought.

Hello Hobbyists & Providers-
  My handle is Happy 39. I am a long time hobbyist(28 yrs) and have just gotten VIP status here.
  I am looking for mature independent providers(45-55) that have incall availibility in NYC. I travel from LI to NJ(Jersey City) and pass thru NYC each way. Early mornings are best for me especially if they are located from 34th Street(Penn Station) down along the Path line.
  If you are such a provider contact me and lets see if we have things in common.

       Have a Happy Day
          Happy 39

and you say you have VIP status - you should know how to do your own homework and know better than porsiting such a specific request on a national board.

jazz32,
  Take a chill pill ,would ya!!! My 1st post and I do it in the wrong place. BFD. It has been corrected. Is all you have to do is comment on stuff like this, then you need to get a life away from the board.
  By the way, use spell check before you post, you should know better--porsiting---should be ---posting. Keep smiling.

  Have a Happy Day
    Happy 39

Don't blame jazz.  Posts like this go up on the wrong boards all the time.  The regulars get tired of having to steer everybody to the right place, and get a little short at time.

That's why most USENET newsgroups have FAQs posted to deal with those situations.  Unfortunately there, as well as here, no newbies ever READ the FAQs.

Thanks for the heads up. I appreciate the thought.

Thanks. I did as you sugested and the post has not shown up on the NY board. How long does it take to get up there? Again, thanks for the help.

          Happy 39

Our moderator is on a bit of a hiatus. But is checking a few times a day still. No worries.

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Posts like this are made regularly on the ISO Forum, which is also National.

My 1st impression of this Forum was unfavorable, also...too many regulars like to have fun or try to impress themselves at the "newbie's" expense.

I know Happy39 from another board...as he said, he's new here but not a newbie. Some "old-timers" on that board share the same disdain for newbies as SOME regulars here but the other board doesn't have an EXCLUSIVE NEWBIE FORUM, as TER does, for "dumb" questions to be asked.

Give those new to the board a break...like your Mom used to tell you, "If you don't have anything nice to say, STFU !!!"

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Thanks TPN, I appreciate what you said on my behalf. I will not take any shit like that guy was trying to hand out. It takes a little while to understand how and where to post. Some had suggestions and I thanked them. This guy just likes to stir up some crap.
  Thanks again,are you in So. Fl. or up in in NYC?

    Have a Happy Weekend

           Happy 39

newchum8521 reads

well said
I am new here, but not new; i've seen too many  newsgroup 'regulars' whose lack of self confidence prompts them to make themselves feel big by standing on top of someone else.
Public correction of an error is not meant to educate, but to humiliate; if that is the only means you have to bolster a flagging level of self esteem, get a life.
a private message will get the job done just as well, w/o convincing others that your motives may be less than helpful.

Many of these posts that you label as "public corrections of error" aren't meant to humiliate.  When you hang out in a particular forum or USENET newsgroup, you get real tired of the same questions being asked over and over and over and over and over and over...........

Most discussion groups have search functions that can be used to turn up 99% of the most common questions.  Most of them have FAQs.  However, many newbies don't bother with either of these; instead they jump right into the deep end and start flailing and expecting everybody to help them out.  Is it any wonder that old hands get tired of seeing this all the time?  Is it any wonder that many snap out from time to time?

This is a NEWBIE discussion board. They may not be familiar with the functions available to them yet. First time questions from a newbie probably have been asked before...but not by that newbie.

I hope you're not a school teacher ... your students would be in trouble asking questions you've heard before!    lol

I was a teacher for nine years and never tired of questions, but then again I taught at college level.  However, those students didn't ask the same questions over and over again.

My first time here I discovered the search function, and then looked on this very board to see if there was a FAQ.  I found it, read it, and didn't ask those common questions as IT took care of my questions.  I still use the Search function from time to time and it's a gem.  The problem is that in today's society everybody EXPECTS to be hand fed every little thing.  Lots of folks won't bow to that, and then those that don't stand their ground and hold to principles comes out and calls us mean and callous.  Whatever.  Just remember one of the most tried and true learning method:

If you figure out yourself, and the teacher just guides you there, then you remember it a lot longer.  If somebody just tells you the answer, you forget it very quickly.

I can readily reccommend a mature provider named Denise.

She's from Spain and meets all of your requirments except location; she's on the Upper East Side.

She has no website, but occassionally she appears in the Eros-NY.com mall under several headings: Mature, Latina, Busty, GFE.  She has NT been in there recently however.

She advertises regularly in The NY Press and The Village Voice.  In the 4 years I've known her I've seen her about 15 times and i never had a bad experience.

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