Well,the first thing you want is an experienced girl with good reviews.Make sure that she offers what you're looking for.As far as incall/outcall....The advantages of incall are no need to worry about nosy neighbors and usually incalls are anywhere from $50-$100.00 less expensive than outcalls to your place.Really,the only advantages to outcall is not having to worry about driving in traffic or parking fees or getting lost.I say,if you're in your hometown and know your way around,go incall.If you're visiting another city where you don't know your way,go outcall and avoid the hassles. Good luck!

A few weeks ago, I was in the same position as you. The best advice is to do your homework. Read alot of reviews and pick the one that meet your needs. Next, contact the provider. Some will agree to meet you first in a public place to check you out. Remember the providers need to be sure of their safety...You may have to by dinner, or have a drink in a restaurant and answer all their questions. Once they are satisfied with you, you are home free. In my case, I got some actions shortly after the dinner. Oh yes, you get pay for the companionship and the dinner too... Cost for being a first timer. After the first successful appointment , you will now have a good reference.

Jericho3

I'm brand new too with only three provider experiences, so take it or leave it. Two of them have been out of this world, one so-so. I would trust the reviews here, they have been dead on. The one so-so did not have any reviews, she is brand new and was very nervous and tentative. Personally I've been renting hotel rooms for outcalls, I think I might be a little wary doing an incall. Both of the great experiences offered incall after our first date and I would have no problem with that. Take your time, I'm sure not all girls that charge high rates are worth it. I also have been going with indepedents only. The stories about switches put me off agencies, but I zero experiences with them, so again, take it or leave it.

Re:Newbiew Hobbiest... looking for first time

Spend the $20/month to get a VIP membership which will allow you to see all the details and read the reviews.  Then, choose a lady with at least 4-5 reviews by reviewers with multiple reviews as well.  Get a prepaid cell phone for added descretion.  Happy hunting.