im new so, bear w/me, in jax recently there's been a rash of incall girls having dates get ready for action then boyfriends/pimps etc jump out of closets and rob the dudes at gun point and send him packing, i mean its not like most men go to the cops, " yeah i was buying some pussy, when suddenly..." so how safe should we feel in call situations?

I don't want to sound like I'm just repeating other advice, but so many newbie questions can be answered by following these steps:

- Get a TER VIP membership

- Search for providers in your area that are very well reviewed by multiple reviewers at least some of whom have reviewed multiple providers.

- Have fun.

I suppose if you're splitting hairs, outcall is 'safer' by your definition of 'safe', assuming of course that you don't call a provider to come over to your house.  

But generally speaking, if you select a provider based on good reviews who offers the services you seek (which is why you need a VIP membership) - you should be fine.  

Good luck,

-PV

I would not go to a house "incall". People say practicing BBFS is taking crazy risk. But statistically speaking, going to an unreviewed provider's private residence "incall" is just as crazy risk.

Depends upon the incall location and lady. Never see a lady without checking reviews first, unless you just want to take the risk. Sometimes taking the risk pan out, but in some cases bad things happen, like robbery or even injury.
When starting out in the hobby, only do incall with ladies that have good reputations or with agencies that have the same.

Your advice is sound and on target.
Outcall can be as bad as incall if a hobbyist call the wrong person. My last true risk taking escapade took place several years ago when I found myself staring down a large looser pimp/boyfriend after I called his escort girlfriend for an outcall session. In such a situation, even when you win the immediate battle, you loose. In my case I felt cheap after that showdown and promised myself that I would not allow something like it happen again.

Get your VIP membership so you can do the research and you shouldn't have a lick of concern with either in or outcall. The types of scenarios you're describing are found with streetwalkers and Craig's List ladies, not well reviewed TER internet courtesans.