please tell me

You should dress comfortably.  I wouldn't show up in a tshirt and shorts, but you don't need to wear a suit either.  You need to be most comfortable.  Don't worry so much about what your clothes say to her.

Don't worry, if you've chosen well, you won't have them on too long.  Wear something that looks good going in but easy to get off and back into!

First time I met a provider I wore... Black Tommy tank top and black Everlast shorts.. Ready to Rumble

The only time dress was a concern of mine was before I had my incall and worked at a very high end property. At that time I had a general statement on my site that recommended appropriate dress that would blend into the surroundings. (*Blending is the operative word here!)

My incall is now in a middle class but fairly upscale gated community. When I travel I entertain at High End properties and just request that extra attention not be drawn to a gentleman's presence because of his dress.

Dressing for golf is always acceptable as a gentleman coming or going from the golf course is always of no concern to anyone. I would have to agree with that suggestion.

Just my .02 cents   kisses ~Tori

My rule for dressing is that the first time I'm seeing a girl, I'll dress up more and the times after that, I may be more casually dressed.

Whether it's a party, business or social function, I remember reading to always be more dressed up than dressed down. A good first impression is important.

Even though you may be the paying client, turn the table and ask yourself, would you rather see a girl that's more dresed up (nice tight/slinky black dress with just a bit of cleavage) or more casually dressed (jeans and flip flops)?  

AND this should be commone sense but alwayss has been said a million times;
Shower, have clean breath and shave.
Proper hygiene is imperative and from what I hear, dudes will still show up stinky, bad breath and 2 days stubble...

A suit
A tie
Dress shirt with 90 buttons
Pants with 4 clasps..
LOL
Its all so difficult to get in and out of for horny girls

...would you rather see a girl that's more dresed up (nice tight/slinky black dress with just a bit of cleavage) or more casually dressed (jeans and flip flops)?  

Since you asked, I would rather meet a woman wearing jeans and flip-flops because she was a real woman.    

But to each their own I guess.

you need to be clean and well groomed.  This includes a nice shirt & slacks which will come off quickly if you did your homework.

I don't wear button down dress shirts or ties because they waste valuable time that could be used for more pleasurable activities.  But on repeat visits I may be more casual like jeans or shorts, t-shirt, and sandals.  But always freshly showered, shaved, and clean breath for both provider and client.

I like to ask the provider to wear a tight sexy dress or skirt.

Are you kidding?

I think you'd look dead sexy in that outfit Atl! Show up at my door dressed like that, and I'll jump ya right there in the doorway and to hell with what the neighbors think!

Hubba hubba! *grin*