If you are a VIP your questions should be answered.  If you are not a VIP, then you should consider becoming one.  Do not ask your questions in email or on the phone.  Careful providers will either hang up on you or not answer your email.

Re:what can i ask?

Always check the reviews, but be careful many times reviews will carry the old "YMMV" so you may still not be getting what you want .. once you build a rapport with a provider you are wanting to see you should have no problem in asking the questions about greek or asian over the phone or via email ... but you must build a rapport with her first. hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be .........