I am new to the hobby (had 1 great encounter) but I thought about this a lot before my first.
If you can’t afford to lose every thing you bring to a meeting with someone you’ve never met, don’t bring it.
I did a lot of research on the area I live in. I trusted that the reviews I read here on TER were accurate with the understanding that YMMV.
As far as my fear of a girl stealing a few bucks from me…I think she has more to lose than me because I wouldn’t have called her if she didn’t have a few good reviews here.
It’s a few bucks to me. To her, it’s her source of income. I would hand every dollar I bring to any girl I plan to see and tell her she can have the money and leave with no strings attached.
I doubt any girls I plan to see would take the money and run.
These are going to sound like lame questions but I'm just wondering what the general rules showering procedure is at an Incall location. Just assume she's going to ask me to shower and I'll go take it even if I took one before arriving, just for the heck of it. I've read a couple past posts about bringing your own toiletries, is this what everyone usually does? If not, I can use her soap and stuff right? I don't know if she doesn't mind me using it to wash my junk because the soap is self cleaning or something. Or do people usually jump in the shower and just get a quick wetdown sans soap?
Thoughtful question. I usually try to be as neat and clean as possible for a session. However if a lady would like me to shower I have no problems doing so, sometimes they will even join you. The ladies that I have known that offer showers have already put everything in the shower for you to use. Brining you own seems more work than necessary, what do you do with it if she doesn't offer you a shower?
I worry also, but I never use the bar of soap. They usually have liquid soap with a pump. Use that, its lot safer and convient than to bring you own toiletries.
I am new to the hobby (had 1 great encounter) but I thought about this a lot before my first.
If you can’t afford to lose every thing you bring to a meeting with someone you’ve never met, don’t bring it.
I did a lot of research on the area I live in. I trusted that the reviews I read here on TER were accurate with the understanding that YMMV.
As far as my fear of a girl stealing a few bucks from me…I think she has more to lose than me because I wouldn’t have called her if she didn’t have a few good reviews here.
It’s a few bucks to me. To her, it’s her source of income. I would hand every dollar I bring to any girl I plan to see and tell her she can have the money and leave with no strings attached.
I doubt any girls I plan to see would take the money and run.
I myself do ask gentlemen if they want to shower, mainly after because mine know that smelling good is a turn on lol. I always make sure that I have plenty towels and wash cloths, I also have body wash that isn't too girly smelling or I have tons of the little bars of soap and when hes done I just toss it and replace it with a new one. The only thing I don't have is deoderant but I think I will have a spray can handy.
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