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scazdude 29 Reviews 1568 reads
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While it is encouraged to write a review on the provider you met.  Is it taboo to ask the provider to provide you with some feed back?  Not necessarily in performance but more in conduct, demeanor and appearance?  Would it be wise to ask if there is something that a person should do differently during the next meet or when meeting a new provider?

I don't ask providers for feedback on how I should act. If I am a gentleman with them, and treat them well as it relates to demeanor and performance, that's all that really matters. I am not sure how that relates to reviews, and how you would put that in a review.

Just treat them well, and be a gentleman with them, that's all that really matters. I'm not sure what to tell you. It depends on the question. Some providers might help you, while others think it is strange. Just be yourself, and enjoy the hobby is all I can say.

As a provider, I have been asked (most often by newbies) for my feedback. Some men just want to know how they stack up to other guys. And usually the ones who ask are the ones that have very little to worry about. But I've also been asked to give advice to guys about grooming, mannerisms, conduct, conversation, technique, etc, ad nauseum. No biggie. I tell them what I really think, not what I think they want to hear. I'm honest, but in the most pleasant way possible.  

Of course, you must remember that any advice requested or given is based upon a provider's personal preference and/or her experience.

Happy hobbying,
Marie

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