It suckes that ur civvies won't let u CIM. All of my civvies let me CIM. So, I never had that problem. But, most of my civvies won't let me do Greek. Or, at least they attempted, but it never worked out. I went see a provider for greek, and was a bit turned off during greek. Eventually, greek is on my menu now and I have no problems maintaining my erection.

U r right, its a conditioned behavior, and its all mentally. So, u have to mentally prepare urself. Just let it go in their mouths and don't think u r disrespecting them in anyway. I have actually made girls gag when I CIM. Hell, just let it go man. Give it some practice, don't think too much about it. Fuck, alll civvies should let u CIM IMO. Anyways, good luck.

the raincoat but CIM, Russian, or COF are not a problem.  Just relax and think positive thoughts, like how beautiful the lady is.  Sometimes it is said that sex is more mental than physical.

seriously, it works for me.

For years I had the exact same problem and I was convinced I just couldn't CIM at all. Then one day, totally out of the blue, it just happened. This civvie chick was blowing me and, yeah, she was particularly good at it and I just let it go. Greatest feeling ever! Since then, I have been able to CIM pretty much every time, as long as the lady has decent skills.

That's not very helpful to you, because I really don't know what triggered the change. It was probably some kind of mental block. I'm just real happy it's fixed now!