Well I haven't done it before so I would rather ask a question than keep on being ignorant. My question is: after I make an appointment with a girl and I'm given her hotel and room number, when I go into the hotel to go up to her room doesn't anyone at the front desk stop you since they don't know you as a hotel guest? I mean I'm just worried about that. Has anyone had any such experiences? How do most people handle this part of the appointment (for example do you just walk in the hotel go straight to the elevator and go up to room with nobody bothering you?). Thanks for all your help.

Hotel guests change pretty much daily, in the larger hotels it would be literally impossible for the desk to keep track of who is or isn't registered at any given time.  Then take legitimate visitors to registered guests into account and it gets worse.  There are hotels that require a room key to access the elevator, but I stongly suspect that a lady with any sense won't be there...
The few hotel incalls I have been to were motels where each room had its own exterior entrance. So the above is (again) mostly conjecture.
I think more about the less urban areas with a limited number of hotels.  Do the desk clerks notice the same ladies coming to visit time after time?

Get a small backpack and carry it on your back with you. When you walk in the hotel walk to the elevator and get to room without looking around alot. You want to act like you are staying at the hotel. Now if the hotel is the only around in one of those small country towns watchout. If you enter in the hotel after 11:00 pm you might have to ask to get into the lobby of the hotel.

I always wait in the lobby until she calls and no one has stopped me yet; those are large hotels. One time, a lady had to postpone the meeting because she had to change hotel -- it was screening evening visitors. We would hope that the ladies would pick the right hotels.

I have never had a problem with acess to a room, however I ofen wonder how thse women don't attract attention to themselves with the room traffic in and out of their room. I wonder if the hotel staff is saying, "looks like another customer!"

you own the place.

. . . covering your face with a newspaper is wrong.

Come on guys.  Smelly was the 5th guy to respond and it took him to set the guy straight.  It'd been one thing if the other 4 had been comical or were goofing around.  Let's take our jobs a little more seriously or else we'll be seeing Mr. Info's input on these matters

That was very helpful, just knowing what other people actually do. Thanks to all you guys.

paranoia will kill you.  I have worked in the hotel business for the last twenty years and pocketfisherman is correct.  First, at a busy hotel the front desk staff is too busy taking care of the guest in front of them to care about anyone else in the hotel and second there are too many other people coming in and out of the hotel to keep up with everyone.  But let me give you a litttle advice.  Don't ever ask the front desk directions to a room! I would also like to answer the question about a ladies frequent visits to the sameme hotel.  If a lady frequently stays at a hotel 3 to 5 times a month, then she will be noticed by both the front desk and management.  the staff may not know why she visits so frequently but they will start to wonder why they are there.