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Re:Spanking
littledesade See my TER Reviews 2538 reads
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In NYC (and many other towns) spanking is LEGAL.  

Therefore, there is NOTHING wrong with asking the question...though you may receive a disappointing answer LOL.

As for whether she/he receives or gives: Dominants give, submissives receive and switches go both ways.

A good follow up to the initial question is one of intensity - which is generally referred to as light, medium or heavy.

Looking to play3159 reads

When a providers bio indicates spanking, does this mean receiving or giving?  I can't recall ever seeing it mentioned in a review.

Since its not considered polite to discuss these matters ahead of time, how does one go about ensuring that it is on the menu?

mentalmidget3535 reads

You can do a searrch Look at the S&M field it has a spanking option

Looking to play2601 reads

Thanks for the reply.  I have done that sort (which is what brought up the question in the first place).

Does spanking mean giving or receiving?
Since discussion regarding specific acts seems to be frowned upon, how do you know if it is on the menu?

In NYC (and many other towns) spanking is LEGAL.  

Therefore, there is NOTHING wrong with asking the question...though you may receive a disappointing answer LOL.

As for whether she/he receives or gives: Dominants give, submissives receive and switches go both ways.

A good follow up to the initial question is one of intensity - which is generally referred to as light, medium or heavy.

How can we tell BEFOREHAND.  Is is normal when an provider indicates "spanking" in profile that she BOTH gives and receives.  Been to many dommes that will have nothing to do with switching.

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