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Re:Spanking
Looking to play 3159 reads
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When a providers bio indicates spanking, does this mean receiving or giving?  I can't recall ever seeing it mentioned in a review.

Since its not considered polite to discuss these matters ahead of time, how does one go about ensuring that it is on the menu?

mentalmidget 3534 reads
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You can do a searrch Look at the S&M field it has a spanking option

Looking to play 2601 reads
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Thanks for the reply.  I have done that sort (which is what brought up the question in the first place).

Does spanking mean giving or receiving?
Since discussion regarding specific acts seems to be frowned upon, how do you know if it is on the menu?

littledesade See my TER Reviews 2537 reads
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In NYC (and many other towns) spanking is LEGAL.  

Therefore, there is NOTHING wrong with asking the question...though you may receive a disappointing answer LOL.

As for whether she/he receives or gives: Dominants give, submissives receive and switches go both ways.

A good follow up to the initial question is one of intensity - which is generally referred to as light, medium or heavy.

firmotk 2 Reviews 2536 reads
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How can we tell BEFOREHAND.  Is is normal when an provider indicates "spanking" in profile that she BOTH gives and receives.  Been to many dommes that will have nothing to do with switching.

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