This site is great, thanks for all the posts.  I have a question that was sorta touched on by someone else, but not fully in the sense that I am interested.

I am a germaphobe also - not too bad, I don't think I have a problem with BBBJ or DATY.  However I really would like to either take a bath or a shower with my provider.  It's in part due to the cleanliness, but it's also somewhat of a fetish of mine and I think it is very sexy.  Would this be a odd or innapropiate request?  I know this is alot about what I want, but I want to make sure the provider is in good spirits as well. Would like to hear from some providers as well please. Thank You

Some providers will bathe with you, others will not. The ones that have high review performance ratings probaly would entertain the idea if the vibes they get from you are good.
Showering with a woman is erotic, find providers that have good performance scores and give a few a try. But do not ask about the shower when setting and confirming the appointment, top notch PROs will understand what you want when the time is right.

In theory, I don't have a problem with sharing the shower-- however, in practice, it would undo all that I've just done in order to get ready for a date. (Steam and errant mist on my freshly coiffed hair, same with makeup, and all the expensive body lotion and light perfume I've already applied go down the drain.)

So I, for one, would prefer that you take your
your shower solo.

I would rather shower after play.

Todd think about also many of these ladies have alot of hair on thier heads styled very nicely and if you want to get all freaky deaky under the water you just cost them an hour of blow drying and styling to get ready for the next guy.  For this resaon maybe make sure you are the last guy of the day and offer her a longer session to compensate her for the trouble.   Or pick a woman with short hair she may be more apt to do it.

Also if you really want to explore this book her for an overnighter and take a shower before bed and in the morning!

Also keep in mind it is best to have the facilities to do this kind of thing.  A standard shower/tub is not a place for two people to wrestle in.  Just becomes a tangle of arms and people geetting splashed in the face with water when they least expect it.  It aint like in the porn movies!  But then again most things arent!!