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Re:regulars vs. one timers
Your answered your own question with the YMMV. There are some who see lot of different ladies and seldom repeat, the OTP and the in betweens. I fall in the in betweens. I have 5 ladies that I really like to spend time with, but I like meeting new ladies as well. I try and balance it out. The biggest advantage to seeing the same lady on a regular basis is that you develop a comfort level. For the ladies and I'm basing this on my talks with the ladies I see often, yes they like regular customers. They know who you are and that you are safe.
i suspect the answer to my question is YMMV, but i'll ask anyway.
i've been seeing providers only a few months, and due to finances and time, i schedule only once a month or so. i'm reaching a point where i'm considering whether to revisit women i've seen and enjoyed, or keep trying new ones. i guess the reason to keep experimenting is to perhaps have that once-in-a-lifetime, mind-blowing experience.
i'd be interested to know what more-experienced hobbyists think of having a favorite vs. continually trying out new women.
and do providers really prefer to have regular customers?
Your answered your own question with the YMMV. There are some who see lot of different ladies and seldom repeat, the OTP and the in betweens. I fall in the in betweens. I have 5 ladies that I really like to spend time with, but I like meeting new ladies as well. I try and balance it out. The biggest advantage to seeing the same lady on a regular basis is that you develop a comfort level. For the ladies and I'm basing this on my talks with the ladies I see often, yes they like regular customers. They know who you are and that you are safe.
I just a had a third session with a provider I really liked from the first time, but this third session was the mind blowing experience. I think she was more comfortable with me from the moment I arrived, and during the session she added things that I don't remember from either session...
By now you may want to try a repeat with at least you favorite from your previous sessions...
I like a session with a new girl, but I'm always a little on edge as well, not sure what to expect, I guess...repeats can be more comfortable, and you might be able to talk her into a mind blowing experience if you can talk to her about what would do that for you...
But life is unpredictable. Sometimes I don't have the time and feel rushed. Sometimes I want to do more but I don't want to offend. Sometimes, rarely, I am not on the ball. This is when the guy is not very responsive, its not my fault, I just think he's thinking about baseball or something so he doesn't cum. Lol. (I always win in the end.) I agree with this post though, if you are coming back for seconds, you are going to get the special treatment. If I see you for thirds, well then, you are my new friend, and the world is our oyster that we get to share. It is such a HUGE compliment to have someone schedule 3X. Its worth more than flowers, tips, review, etc.
There are a couple of ladies I see locally that I always have a nice time with. Unfortunately, I feel like I am being taken for granted and so the experiences aren't always the greatest.
In some respects, there is the request for the "ultimate experience" for me. Recently, I met one of the most amazing ladies ever, Lesley Warren from NC. I will be seeing her again soon when I am traveling. Unfortunately, she does not live near me. Sigh..........
I don't usually do repeats very often at all.
I have so many providers available to me, that I can't make my mind up half the time on who I want to see next.
My "list" never actually shrinks,it GROWS.
I do have one provider that I have seen a few times,twice for
sessions and once at a social. We have great chemistry and she is genuinely glad to see me when we get together.
I guess you could call me a regular when it comes to her.
I enjoy the variety of whats out there for the most part.
The excitement I get when seeing a new provider, I compare
to picking up a "one night stand,"(except there's the research of course.)The unbrideled,animalistic,lust filled,passion of a new encounter is what drives me.
It's not so much YMMV, but, "What are you looking for?"
With EVERY Lady I have seen more than once, things have just gotten better each time. Nothing against variety, but if you want that "once in a lifetime, mind blowing experience", I expect it is much more likely to happen on a repeat visit.
Suggestion: identify the very best experience you have had, and then go back to the same Lady again. I bet the second round will set a new standard for "best I've had so far".
I like variety, but it is next to impossible to know if a provider will be any good or not until after she's left, so the more "variety" you go for, the more bad experiences you'll have.
If you stay in one area for your hobbying, I think it's best to experiment and find 2-3 different girls (different looks, different in bed, and so on) that you really enjoy, and rotate them based on what you're in the mood for. Tonight Scandanavian, next week maybe a little Chinese. Just like dining out.
I travel on business weekly, all over the US, and I "hobby" a couple times a month with my commission checks. So, I'll keep trying new girls in cities I visit regularly until I find that special someone, then visit her 3-4 times a year. With most of the regular girls, it gets better each time. If it gets boring, if she starts to take my $$$ for granted, or she gets out of the business, it's and back to TER until I find a new one.
The only city not worth getting a regular in my opinion is Toronto. The variety is huge, the service generally good, and the prices low enough (a couple hundred US goes a long way) that even a mediocre performance can be made up for the next day.
My mileage has indeed varied in this respect. There is one place I go where it's the same every time (they only provide very basic service h/j). I'm not going to repeat there anymore. I found a new amp with a girl who was incredible on my first visit and just got better on the second visit. In fact, my first visit was on a tuesday and my second was on the following saturday (last saturday). I just could not stop thinking about how good she made me feel. She was delighted to see me the second time and she gave me an experience that was twice as good as the first. I was clawing the sheets and biting my lips trying not to scream with pleasure. I honestly cannot see myself visiting anyone else but her from now on. She's totally hot and satisfies me 100%.
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