Hi,

    I recently found a provider in TER that I was interested in.  The problem is that she only has one review here in TER(whether she is new or not is beyond me).  What I would like to know is:  As this is my first time ever doing something like this, should I give her a try, or should I  go with a provider who has more reviews(an therefore more experience)?  Also, if (and or when) I do take the plunge, should I be honest with the Provider and tell her that this will be my first time and hope that she does'nt try to take advantage of me, or should I just fake it and hope she does'nt realize that I a complete nervous wreck?  Sorry for the long post, and thanks for whatever advice you can give me.

First, # of reviews does not necessarily imply anything about how experienced the provider is.  The ones who've been doing this a very long time will have  alot, but some who are expereinced just don't get reviewed.  Sometimes the lady doesn't wish the publicity or the guy doesn't want to kiss-n-tell.

That being said, a very expereinced provider would probably make your first time much better, since she'd have lots of practice putting newbies at ease.

And as for telling her you're new to this, you should.  It's unlikely you'll get taken advanatage of because you've read the reviews and picked a reputable provider.  For example, you know an up-sale (making you pay more for specific acts) isn't normal for her.  And letting her know it's your first time will let her change what she does-for example she might control the encounter more since you're probably going to be pretty nervous.

There are alot of people who use this board and don't post any reviews.  If everyone posted, many girls would probably have a new review almost every day. Don't let one review scare you away.  That might mean that only one guy was cool enough to post.

Thanks for the advice.  This is my first time posting on this website.  I guess you could say that I am a "long time member, first time poster" (to paraphrase a popular term used on radio talk shows).  Hopefully the advice will help me when I do get together with a provider.

There are some girls who are phenomenal who prefer not to be reviewed and will specifically request that.

That doesn't make it uncool not to post a review.