OK...I just had my first expeireince with a provider...and it went pretty well...anywayz...the entire process of getting the appointment to what happened during the sessions has raised a few questions that I'd appreciate any answers on...

1)I reviewed a ton of the reviews writtne on providers b4 attempting to make contact with alot of them...Most of them as usual, had their screening process...and some asked for references of providers ive been with...Now...the problem is that before today I hadn't been with any providers...so isn't this a catch 22?  When i emailed these providers, and told them that i had no refernces, i got no responses...What gives?

2) The reason, that I hadn't seen a provider any earlier was of my concern for std's.  That was still a big issue for me when i made my appt with the provider i did see.  Because of my paranoia i did not want any dfk or daty.  During my session, however, my provider put her self in a position where it was aobivious she was giving me atleast a chance to daty...which i declined...then when she moved in for a dfk, i moved the cheek..I felt as if i might have offended the provider....I'd like to know what the providers take on this is?  Is this something I should have made known at the initial contact made via phone or email?

3) Are their any providers who will not meed a hobbyist based on providers the hobbyist has been with in the past?

Thanks

I was also curious about the previous questions. Also what percentage of you guys actually perform a DFK down low.  Sorry don't know the abbreviation yet.

Thanks

I can honestly say that alot of clients want DATY but unfortunately they spit everywhere so they don't contract anything which makes it quite disgusting. I would personally prefer if they are interested in that, do it right or just don't do it. I don't do my job half-assed (obviously 3 pops/1 hour) lol. And if your concerned about STD's, just get out of the hobby because I don't know any provider or client that will honestly tell you if they have something.

I've turned down several clients because they think they have "skin tags" on their d*ck and that's not the case. It really makes it sad because as much as I enjoy the hobby as well as the clients, there are risks as with everything else we enjoy in life. I try to be safe as possible but not all clients are interested in that so it cuts my pay in half. Damn shame.

Most providers of "escort" quality go to great lengths to
ensure that they are in top health.That is why cleanliness
is such a factor. They get themselves checked regularly and
will turn down a client if that client is questionable.
They are more worried of catching something from you,than you
catching something from them. THEY do not know who YOU have been with.That is why they have their "boundaries,"and will
not let you cross them.Just remember,the precautions that
they take are not only for their safety,but for yours too.
Try and remember this the next time you have the pleasure
of being able to spend some time with one of these beautiful
women. When she lays down next to you,and she moves in to
give you a deep,passionate,french kiss,maybe you wont'turn
your cheek.

You mean DATY,it stands for "dining at the Y."
As far as your question about what % of hobbyists enjoy DATY.
I can't speak for all of us,but most hobbyists are not
interested in the "wham bam thank you mame." All women enjoy
being pleasured,whether they are a provider,or a civilian.
We as hobbyists,for the most part,do this because we are always
horny,and we enjoy having sex with beautiful women.
We give them "donations" because they allow us to pleasure
them.That is what it is all about,"PLEASURING THEM."
If a real GFE (girl friend experience,)ever gets a hold of you,make sure you do your best to make sure that she has
a pleasurable experience.You can bet she is going to do the same for you. Put into it what you want out of it.

Tell the providers you don't have any references, but you're willing to give any information they need for screening, such as: DL, business card, company name & number, home number & address etc...

Some provider will call where you work and confirm if you really do work there......