I'm interested in some opinions.  I'm the type of person who gets more pleasure out of knowing a little bit about the provider before we become intimate.  If I arrange for an outcall and have the provider meet me at a certain place, like a hotel bar, and I ask her to have a drink with me before we head to the hotel room, does the clock start ticking when she gets there or when we get to the room?  I'm assuming it starts when she gets there but in reading some of the reviews, some of them mention drinks before but do not mention an extra cost.

Thanks for your comments.

Since you are paying for her time, yes you should assume you are paying her from the time she arrives to the time she leaves, unless of course she decides to stay longer.

However, read each website carefully.  Some ladies require meeting in a public place for coffee or drinks before spending time alone and usually this is a short get-to-know-ya that is not on the clock.  Some offer a discounted rate for lunch or drinks to become aquainted before deciding to have a date. It depends.

Personally I find that when meeting someone for the first time both parties benefit from a dinner or lunch date to become acquainted, flirt a little and feel comfortable together.

Kate

never assume anything.

If you do want to hang out and get a drink or a meal, always ask ahead of time if this part includes the clock or if it's not.

Some girls do have the meet and greet as part of your time, others do not or if they do, sometimes, it's less.

So, always ask up front and never assume anything

RH

WONDERFUL comments and suggestions.  I appreciate your thoughts.

Thank you!!

I've done that before and the lady i met with, the clock started when she got there. but she did stay a little longer and she was well worth it.

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Always ask first. Some Providers announce that fact on their website, as do I. Others do not, but it does not mean you would'nt be allowed to have a drink beforehand, even if on the clock.