Ok, so I got in contact with a well reviewed provider who I very much want to see.  We agree on a time the next email she sends me says may I ask your recreational interests so I can give you the donation for the same?  Now I am confused as I have never had a provider ask me this before and as far as I have gleaned from the hobby these are not the things to talk about in emails.  So I send her a response say I would love to see you for an hour and order everything from the menu and if you would like acroynms I would be happy to provide them.  Maybe I should have said tennis (lol) I have not heard back from her and sent hear emails explaining my trepidation about this, curious to know what others would do?

You were wise to be cautious. She's either not very bright or something's up.

JHCB

She seems to lost her sense of the business. If I were you I would research someone else and move on.

I'm new at this too. I'd run from her.  I get a new gal on the phone and ask her out like we are going to the park. When I get there i have my donation in an envelope and discreetly put it on a table or what ever. I always ask to shower and then I have my fun. I don't discuss anything till we are at it good. Then I talk to her like she was my S.O..  I have not had a bad time yet but i'm not out working craig's list either. I'm new so i stay on the main roads.

The basics--when (day/time), where (in/out call), how long (time of session) is what she is looking for.

This is the hobby and you pay for buffet. She either ain't too bright Or it's a ruse(or worse).