I've seen a GFE young lady on 3 occasions.  We normally have sex in the nude.  Would I be out of bounds asking her to wear a garter and stockings and high heels during our next session.  She is a great woman, and I'm sure she'll say yes but even at this point, I'm shy about it.  To me it's something your girl -friend would do so why not my GFE provider.  Am I nuts?

It's probably not out of bounds to ask this.  Personally, I prefer nude to stockings/heels, as I equate that look to Porn.  When I seek out a GFE, I want nude, not porn.

Most of them would let YOU wear them if that floated your boat.

as long as your money is green.

~A provider doesn't know what you want if you don't tell her..... the hobby provides a safe environment for mature adults to express themselves and their thoughts in a safe and consensual place.

I think it is important for gentlemen in the hobby to understand that most providers want to know the particular behavior that their clients have in mind. (*After all, if you can't share it with a provider who can you share it with*)

As a provider, ladies can always entertain suggestions and if it is something that is "not on their menu" they can always decline any behavior.

As a hobbyist, I would advice you to never refrain from divulging thoughts or fantasies to a provider out of fear of judgment as all of the providers that I consider professional would never judge anyone .... whether the behavior is something they offer or not. Judgment of client's behavior isn't truly the behavior of a professional. (*no matter how bizarre it might be*)

So, share away with confidence, that is what the hobby is about.   kisses ~Tori

AS ALWAYS.... IT DEPENDS ON HOW YOU ASK.  THEN AGAIN MONEY IS MONEY. ISN'T IT?