Hi -

Here's my situation - I've found an attractive escort in my area that I want to meet.  She has 10 reviews on TER, all positive and several by guys who have written many reviews.  I gave her my information, she checked my work references, and has agreed to meet me.

So here's my question - I told her I had a place in town where we could meet.  It's not my house, it's a friend's house that I am watching while they are away for a few months.  But she thinks it's my house because in her reply she said I will meet you at "your residence" at time and date.

This is probably a silly question, but should I tell her ahead of time that it isn't my house?  I'm afraid if I do, she'll get uneasy and won't want to meet with me there.  But I'm afraid if I don't, she'll do some sort of check and find out it's not my house and never want to meet with me.  I can't use my own house because I have nosy neighbors who see everything and like to talk.

Do providers care whose house they are meeting you at?

Since she's already agreed to meet you,be honest with her and just tell her the situation.It shouldn't be a problem.She doesn't know you and since she's meeting you for outcall at a private residence,she's probably just assuming that it's your home.I've met ladies at my best friend's apt.on at least two occasions.Bottom line,as long as they feel comfortable with their surroundings,everything's cool with them.

You should not have a problem if she can reach you at the residence and verify you via her methods. Mention that you are house sitting for friend, that may turn out to be a good conversation piece via email or the phone. Don't get nervous about the situation, if she pick that up in email or phones conversations she probaly will cancel the appointment or no show.