I have just gotten myself verified and are ready to see my first provider.  However, I have a "uncut" penis.  Should I tell a provider ahead of time?  Assuming I clean it very well before going to the appointment, are the same service still to be expected?

The way I see it is you have 2 choices:

1.  You could cut part of your penis off with a kitchen knife;  or

2.  Make sure you freshly showered and very clean and then just enjoy yourself.  Ladies appreciate cleanliness more that almost anything else.

I know it's a difficult choice, but you have to make it all on your own.

as a newbie myself, I must ask: how do you get "verified" and ready to see your first provider. I have seen many providers over the years, but have no references, wouldn't know who or where they were. I am std-free & hiv- so do I have to get "verified" before using a provider? Will they (provider) require some kind of certificate?